"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A phrase that works well for me.

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When I'm talking to a girl, and she says something stupid, I say "your lucky your cute". this implies shes dull, but shes still flattered. Works well for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tom Leykis calls that a back handed compliment. Its a compliment and slap in the face at the same time. Beautiful

Another example.

Her: "Do these jeans make me look fat?"

You: "I, think you look great."

Emphasis on the "I".

That way you are essentially saying "Yes, you are fat and you are lucky to be with a guy like me." :)
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
When I'm talking to a girl, and she says something stupid, I say "your lucky your cute". this implies shes dull, but shes still flattered. Works well for me.
I like that. Is it copywrighted? Can you give me copying permission? :D :)
 

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Her: "Do these jeans make me look fat?"

Me: "No its all that chocolate and candy you eat that makes you look fat"

That should get a good reaction :eek:
 

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lol, my friend uses that all the time. works decent.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No
grl- does this make me look fat? (obvious us dj don't do fat chicks)
dj- No your fat makes you look fat :D
 

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I was just thinking, if you put her hand on ur palm, and said "your lucky your cute", it would work better.
 
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