"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A one big THANKS!

Lompa

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Well, i have started a change in myself since last year,
in that change i have lost 20kg's and stopped playing my pc with no limts.
I saw this site a year ago and started browsing it frequently 2 months~ ago.
After reading the complete DJ bible (no cheating :yes: ) my life changed,
I am not afraid to be the leader; the alpha male and take responsibility for my life.

My whole attitude has changed thanks to this site.
I had a a 2 day trip the desert with people from my town.
Before this change i was the "lone wolf" and now i took the alpha male postion. In the trip, the formor "leader" just took a step because he sensed my confidence and just took his follower and was with him all the trip.
I "took" the 2 best looking girls (2 7's) and they just wanted to flirt with me all the trip...

In the bus, i met cute blonde chick (an 8). sge seeked my attention because i didn't give it her to make her persuit me. I made a mistake and gave her too much attention after that but still she saw me as a possible BF.

I feel alot better with myself currently. I am on the right way!
i still have alot of improvment but i am getting there.

thanks to everyone that wrote/composed the dj bible THANK YOU!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zerotwoonenine

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nice man, one more of us and one less of them.
 
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