"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A one big THANKS!

Lompa

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Well, i have started a change in myself since last year,
in that change i have lost 20kg's and stopped playing my pc with no limts.
I saw this site a year ago and started browsing it frequently 2 months~ ago.
After reading the complete DJ bible (no cheating :yes: ) my life changed,
I am not afraid to be the leader; the alpha male and take responsibility for my life.

My whole attitude has changed thanks to this site.
I had a a 2 day trip the desert with people from my town.
Before this change i was the "lone wolf" and now i took the alpha male postion. In the trip, the formor "leader" just took a step because he sensed my confidence and just took his follower and was with him all the trip.
I "took" the 2 best looking girls (2 7's) and they just wanted to flirt with me all the trip...

In the bus, i met cute blonde chick (an 8). sge seeked my attention because i didn't give it her to make her persuit me. I made a mistake and gave her too much attention after that but still she saw me as a possible BF.

I feel alot better with myself currently. I am on the right way!
i still have alot of improvment but i am getting there.

thanks to everyone that wrote/composed the dj bible THANK YOU!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zerotwoonenine

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nice man, one more of us and one less of them.
 
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