so i go to this dead bar with nice cute bartenders. This old chick manager mid-40's told me where she lived when i went to the bar earlier 6-12 months ago. So im thinkin ill speak with her for a while and from there end up at her place. I go there and she is on the side looking bored. I drink up go to her we start talking. She says she thought it was me but was not sure. Nothing big happened, but later on i learn that dead bar turns out to be a dance floor during midnight. I wait and see and girls start packing up. There were all girls in the dance floor, and 3-4 guys besides me waiting to hit the dance floor. Since the club is playing salsa music i didnt hit the dance floor at that moment. All of a sudden the start playing reggaeton. I ask 4 ladies individually would u like to dance and they say not right now. Later on the girls i asked start dancing with there girl friends. So im thinking 20-25 girls in the room dancing with themselves, only one guy on the dance floor dancing, all the other 3 guys are just staring at the girls. I just hit the dance floor do my thing and leave. Asking a girl would u like to dance and they say not right now means they are not interested. Any tips on what to say or do and they will be interested???
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
a night in the salsa club/bar
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