so i go to this dead bar with nice cute bartenders. This old chick manager mid-40's told me where she lived when i went to the bar earlier 6-12 months ago. So im thinkin ill speak with her for a while and from there end up at her place. I go there and she is on the side looking bored. I drink up go to her we start talking. She says she thought it was me but was not sure. Nothing big happened, but later on i learn that dead bar turns out to be a dance floor during midnight. I wait and see and girls start packing up. There were all girls in the dance floor, and 3-4 guys besides me waiting to hit the dance floor. Since the club is playing salsa music i didnt hit the dance floor at that moment. All of a sudden the start playing reggaeton. I ask 4 ladies individually would u like to dance and they say not right now. Later on the girls i asked start dancing with there girl friends. So im thinking 20-25 girls in the room dancing with themselves, only one guy on the dance floor dancing, all the other 3 guys are just staring at the girls. I just hit the dance floor do my thing and leave. Asking a girl would u like to dance and they say not right now means they are not interested. Any tips on what to say or do and they will be interested???
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a night in the salsa club/bar
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