"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A nice quote on why to be a DJ

lYlasTer

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"When I was a young man I vowed never to marry until I found the ideal woman. Well, I found her but, alas, she was waiting for the ideal man."
-- Alain

This is why we have to take the hard path of self-improvement and doing our best to fulfill our potential. One day we might meet a woman who will demand more than just lines and techniques. She'll want to settle down with a truely great guy. Why spend time learning how to "pretend" to be the Ideal man? I rather put in that extra effort to actually BECOME that man. That's what a Don Juan is about, become the man we envision ourselves to be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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lYlasTer said:
"When I was a young man I vowed never to marry until I found the ideal woman. Well, I found her but, alas, she was waiting for the ideal man."
-- Alain

This is why we have to take the hard path of self-improvement and doing our best to fulfill our potential. One day we might meet a woman who will demand more than just lines and techniques. She'll want to settle down with a truely great guy. Why spend time learning how to "pretend" to be the Ideal man? I rather put in that extra effort to actually BECOME that man. That's what a Don Juan is about, become the man we envision ourselves to be.

yes, your 100 percent right
 
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