"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A nice quote on why to be a DJ

lYlasTer

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"When I was a young man I vowed never to marry until I found the ideal woman. Well, I found her but, alas, she was waiting for the ideal man."
-- Alain

This is why we have to take the hard path of self-improvement and doing our best to fulfill our potential. One day we might meet a woman who will demand more than just lines and techniques. She'll want to settle down with a truely great guy. Why spend time learning how to "pretend" to be the Ideal man? I rather put in that extra effort to actually BECOME that man. That's what a Don Juan is about, become the man we envision ourselves to be.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lYlasTer said:
"When I was a young man I vowed never to marry until I found the ideal woman. Well, I found her but, alas, she was waiting for the ideal man."
-- Alain

This is why we have to take the hard path of self-improvement and doing our best to fulfill our potential. One day we might meet a woman who will demand more than just lines and techniques. She'll want to settle down with a truely great guy. Why spend time learning how to "pretend" to be the Ideal man? I rather put in that extra effort to actually BECOME that man. That's what a Don Juan is about, become the man we envision ourselves to be.

yes, your 100 percent right
 
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