Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A New Year a New Person

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So as the new school year rolls around I am looking to reinvent myself.
I want to change myself for the better. I am putting faith in all the HighSchool DJ's to help me out here. After reading most of the bible I realized that being a DJ is not all about women. A true DJ is straight up chill.

Anyways my idea was to take small steps. So for tomorrow what is my small step; Chat some girl on facebook, text some girl, or smaller than that just say hi to someone new.

I'm totally lost so hopefully someone can guide me on my way
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A good way to start would be to try to make some new friends. It's a lot easier than you think, and having a lot of friends never hurts ;o.

But for a small step, why don't you try saying "Hi" to everyone you make eye contact with? It really helps your "Don't Care" attitude (in terms of "I don't care what others think") and you might make some new friends. Try to say "Hi" to 50 strangers before the start of the next week.

Hope it helps
 

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Yeah so the saying hi thing worked well. It seems that you catch people off guard because people rarely do that.
So right now school starts on Thursday of this week
I'm open to any ideas on how to kick off the first day of school with tips
The freshman don't know me and not to many sophmores
So let me hear some advice
If you have any questions let me know
 

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Good news I just started a 12 week workout plan to get in shape for wrestling
and I made the Varsity Soccer team the other day
Open to all advice
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nice to see another aspiring DJ on the highschool forum! Tiesto you mentioned wanting to reinvent myself. You should check out the don juan bootcamp on this page here. I want somebody to do it with so we can talk about it and help eachother. I also think it would help with the motivation.

I too wrestle, what weight class are you?
 

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SPEAK said:
nice to see another aspiring DJ on the highschool forum! Tiesto you mentioned wanting to reinvent myself. You should check out the don juan bootcamp on this page here. I want somebody to do it with so we can talk about it and help eachother. I also think it would help with the motivation.

I too wrestle, what weight class are you?
Good advice speak, i was guna suggest the same thing for him.

I've been in 1 boot camp and just bailed out on like the 3rd week. I like your idea speak, I say, me and you start a private one so we can really get through this, with you as the moderator cause i don't know how to do it.

Tiesto, join in as well, I feel good about doing this, us 3, if you guys are committed. Set it up Speak.
 

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Right on Alex I finally found someone in my position! That third week is a b1tch. I don't know how to set up a thing with me as the moderator, I didn't think that was possible? I'll try and figure it out tonight though.

We should work out some logistics though, when do you want to start this thing. The bootcamp says to start each week on a thursday.

Do you have msn or skype or something?
 

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I have no idea a DJ "bootcamp" is
Can you fill me in?

Right now I'm 125 but I'll go 119 during the season
 

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Ok the bootcamp is an 8 week program that you do by yourself. Each week has articles you read for it and then a field program. For example week 1 had articles about raising confidence and making eye contact. Your task for week 1 is to go out and make eye contact with 50 strangers. Week 2 is the same sort of thing but you have to go have 10, five minute conversations with strangers.

The goal is that at the end you will be an alpha-male who isn't afraid of anything.


Click this link for a copy it explains itself better than I can.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just read about it
I'm pumped and ready to start.
I don't have skype but definately can make an AIM
 

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My school starts this thursday which would be a great day to start for me...
what is your guys msn or whatever its called
 

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Haha we're all online at the same time!!

Speak, by moderator, I just mean that you're the ones who post the articles and instructions/what to do for tiesto and myself. So, I'm thinking you could start another thread for the program, and post what to do for it and stuff, me and tiesto will post our experiences there, as you will do...blah blah blah, basic dj boot camp stuff. (or you could just post it in this thread, maybe that's easier)

I am pumped as well, because I'm also on a program for actually FINISHING the DJ Bible, and it's working, if you guys haven't finished it yet, I'll direct you to the program.

Let's set this up!

I don't have msn or skype, add me on facebook and we can do some instant message chat stuff to talk.


Also, Thursday sounds good, I'm proned to say next thursday just to procrastinate, but by all means, if you guys are ready this week, lets do it! However, I think it might be better to modify the rules a little, since we're in high school (and this wasn't intended for hs) maybe start it on monday or sunday.

:rock:
 

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tiesto5 said:
Yo Alex what is your profile picture of?
its got the face of the sexiest guy you've ever seen, cuddling with a black-retarded looking dog (just the face of the dog). i have my shirt off too :cheer:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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try this, I went to my profile and copied the link
 
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