"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A new seduction method

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A new seduction tip

Title: Seduction 101: Make her fall by making her addicted to you.
It's short and to the point. It will help you, I can guarantee it. It's blogged at: http://francogrex.wordpress.com/
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thats not a method, its a tip. Also, that sounds like you need some initial attraction for that to work, so its just a phase in the seduction. Its building a deep connection. I like the simplicity of it though. Around these parts, the 'charm' style of seduction is sort of frowned upon. You will most likely be flamed for it.

Im starting to wonder if the 'charm' method just needs a little refinement, and reintroduced. I feel like Im not doing enough 'charming' cuz it seems chody, and AFC. It seems the aloof jerk approach seems to have more of an effect though. Im definitely better at the jerk approach. I've never been good at flattery, anyway.
 
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horaholic said:
...Also, that sounds like you need some initial attraction for that to work, so its just a phase in the seduction. Its building a deep connection. I like the simplicity of it though.
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You need initial interaction/introduction. This is not for picking up women in bars and clubs.

...I feel like Im not doing enough 'charming' cuz it seems chody, and AFC. It seems the aloof jerk approach seems to have more of an effect though. Im definitely better at the jerk approach. I've never been good at flattery, anyway.
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The first phase is just the preparation for the slippery slope of phase two. There's no AFC here; a little patience and you'll get the chance to be the absolute jerk (even hypocritical and manipulative) but that will only draw her to you even more.
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Sorry to disappoint, but this is the oldest method in the book. Push and pull away. Give attention and let go.
 
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