"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A new seduction method

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A new seduction tip

Title: Seduction 101: Make her fall by making her addicted to you.
It's short and to the point. It will help you, I can guarantee it. It's blogged at: http://francogrex.wordpress.com/
Your comments are welcome.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thats not a method, its a tip. Also, that sounds like you need some initial attraction for that to work, so its just a phase in the seduction. Its building a deep connection. I like the simplicity of it though. Around these parts, the 'charm' style of seduction is sort of frowned upon. You will most likely be flamed for it.

Im starting to wonder if the 'charm' method just needs a little refinement, and reintroduced. I feel like Im not doing enough 'charming' cuz it seems chody, and AFC. It seems the aloof jerk approach seems to have more of an effect though. Im definitely better at the jerk approach. I've never been good at flattery, anyway.
 

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horaholic said:
...Also, that sounds like you need some initial attraction for that to work, so its just a phase in the seduction. Its building a deep connection. I like the simplicity of it though.
You need initial interaction/introduction. This is not for picking up women in bars and clubs.

...I feel like Im not doing enough 'charming' cuz it seems chody, and AFC. It seems the aloof jerk approach seems to have more of an effect though. Im definitely better at the jerk approach. I've never been good at flattery, anyway.
The first phase is just the preparation for the slippery slope of phase two. There's no AFC here; a little patience and you'll get the chance to be the absolute jerk (even hypocritical and manipulative) but that will only draw her to you even more.
http://francogrex.wordpress.com/
 

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Sorry to disappoint, but this is the oldest method in the book. Push and pull away. Give attention and let go.
 
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