“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A New Low: The Brother Zone

ezilonman

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I have a friend that has been in love with this girl for a year and a half now.

He is such a ***** though that he has never made a move on her. I love him to death because he is my boy and I have tried to help him but there is no hope. A person won't change unless they want to.

Anyways my buddy has created a whole new level of the "friendship zone".
He has gone straight through that right into the "Brother zone".

Everyone thinks they are dating because they are always together...ALWAYS! They are basically in a relationship w/o the kissing, sex, etc...

But in reality whenever I ask her what thier relations are she doesn't even say "were just friends"

No, instead she always says "he is like a brother to me"

Ouch...atleast you have a chance (although small) in the friendship zone

the brother zone is hands down game over!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ezilonman

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Bvbidd said:
Gay guys are supposed to be there.
Funny! She said to me "he likes men" even though I have told her a few times he wants a piece of that a$$.

I thought she was joking but she might really think its true... he isn't gay, he does stuff with other girls.

but has this girl set so high in his mind... poor fella, she owns him.

I try to help him move on but...he just won't accept it. I have even showed him this site....

Maybe a punch to the babymaker is in order?
 

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He is in enough agony. He probally crys himself to sleep and wacks it hourly to her mental image.
 

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Yeah dude, it's pretty fvckin terrible to have a strong, platonic friendship with...a woman. I can think of nothing worse.:nono:

A lot of younger women will hook up with their male friends, in fact, one of my closest female friends, who considers me a "brother" was gonna hook up with me the other night, but I told her no (because she hooks up with a lot of her close male friends, and I can't deal with that).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Same here serialized, I have a gal-friend who she calls me her little brother, but we've had sex before.

It all depends on the situation. But, for this guy I dunno, it sounds kinda bleak.
 
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