"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A New Low: The Brother Zone

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I have a friend that has been in love with this girl for a year and a half now.

He is such a ***** though that he has never made a move on her. I love him to death because he is my boy and I have tried to help him but there is no hope. A person won't change unless they want to.

Anyways my buddy has created a whole new level of the "friendship zone".
He has gone straight through that right into the "Brother zone".

Everyone thinks they are dating because they are always together...ALWAYS! They are basically in a relationship w/o the kissing, sex, etc...

But in reality whenever I ask her what thier relations are she doesn't even say "were just friends"

No, instead she always says "he is like a brother to me"

Ouch...atleast you have a chance (although small) in the friendship zone

the brother zone is hands down game over!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bvbidd said:
Gay guys are supposed to be there.
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Funny! She said to me "he likes men" even though I have told her a few times he wants a piece of that a$$.

I thought she was joking but she might really think its true... he isn't gay, he does stuff with other girls.

but has this girl set so high in his mind... poor fella, she owns him.

I try to help him move on but...he just won't accept it. I have even showed him this site....

Maybe a punch to the babymaker is in order?
 
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He is in enough agony. He probally crys himself to sleep and wacks it hourly to her mental image.
 
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Yeah dude, it's pretty fvckin terrible to have a strong, platonic friendship with...a woman. I can think of nothing worse.:nono:

A lot of younger women will hook up with their male friends, in fact, one of my closest female friends, who considers me a "brother" was gonna hook up with me the other night, but I told her no (because she hooks up with a lot of her close male friends, and I can't deal with that).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Same here serialized, I have a gal-friend who she calls me her little brother, but we've had sex before.

It all depends on the situation. But, for this guy I dunno, it sounds kinda bleak.
 
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