"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A new hoop (discussion tip)

GloriouslyInsane

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Hey DJs,i recently discovered this small technique i implement in my discussions.Lately while building rapport i was getting the "so what kind of girl do you like?" question and seeing how no answer was really the "correct" one i devised a little scheme.

Thing is that you could c+f your way around it but what about using it towards your benefit?
If i would start to describe her as my "dream girl" it would be cheesy (depending on her IL) and if i started describing some really other-wordly perfect girl i would get a drop in IL.So what i devised is this hoop i constantly use now (hoop is when you test a girls IL by asking/implying to do things she normally wouldn't)

So here it goes.Let's say we are dealing with a brunnete,average height girl who is a good cook

Girl: Sow what are you looking for in a girl?
GI: Knowing how to cook is a must,and i must say i prefer brunettes over blondes (now it's kinda cheesy at this point and she's smelling im describing her)..(pause for effect)..but you know what really turns me on? A girl that can x,are you any good at it?

Now in x i used "massage" which is not only a way to get some good kino going but if she actually did it (she did) i would now for sure she was hooked.
Subtle SOI , hoop and showing you know what you want in a package.

Any critisism accepted.
Cheers.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mini_DJ

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I kinda do something like that but different!I aint been in to the PU stuff long but if im worng some one enlighten me? when a chicks asked me ‘what kind of girl do you like’ or ‘what kinda girl you go for’ i shot back with ‘the ones that are barefoot and hand cuffed to the cooker’ that all ways get a shocked laugh . If they really want to no there be like ‘no seriously’ at this point I would say iv got her!

Shes trying to building rapport with me? so I don’t really **** around much with C&F!This is where she trying to see if she up to my standards ?So I describe her but focusing more on the personality side of things , but I don’t go to deep .

Lately iv started adding a part about looking for a chick that has no hang ups about sex that I can share amazing sex with! Then are be like ‘you know any one like that ?’ I all ways get a shy smile or ‘yeah I can hook you up if you want’ some times but rare I get ‘do I look like a dating agency’ lol.

After that I go in to my routine about my last relationship being bad and has put me of relationships. (A lot of the chicks agree with me and understand I thought that was kinda weird!) so I aint looking for nothing serious and that works pretty well for me i got my current **** buddy from basically doing that.
 
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