"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A new hoop (discussion tip)

GloriouslyInsane

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Hey DJs,i recently discovered this small technique i implement in my discussions.Lately while building rapport i was getting the "so what kind of girl do you like?" question and seeing how no answer was really the "correct" one i devised a little scheme.

Thing is that you could c+f your way around it but what about using it towards your benefit?
If i would start to describe her as my "dream girl" it would be cheesy (depending on her IL) and if i started describing some really other-wordly perfect girl i would get a drop in IL.So what i devised is this hoop i constantly use now (hoop is when you test a girls IL by asking/implying to do things she normally wouldn't)

So here it goes.Let's say we are dealing with a brunnete,average height girl who is a good cook

Girl: Sow what are you looking for in a girl?
GI: Knowing how to cook is a must,and i must say i prefer brunettes over blondes (now it's kinda cheesy at this point and she's smelling im describing her)..(pause for effect)..but you know what really turns me on? A girl that can x,are you any good at it?

Now in x i used "massage" which is not only a way to get some good kino going but if she actually did it (she did) i would now for sure she was hooked.
Subtle SOI , hoop and showing you know what you want in a package.

Any critisism accepted.
Cheers.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mini_DJ

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I kinda do something like that but different!I aint been in to the PU stuff long but if im worng some one enlighten me? when a chicks asked me ‘what kind of girl do you like’ or ‘what kinda girl you go for’ i shot back with ‘the ones that are barefoot and hand cuffed to the cooker’ that all ways get a shocked laugh . If they really want to no there be like ‘no seriously’ at this point I would say iv got her!

Shes trying to building rapport with me? so I don’t really **** around much with C&F!This is where she trying to see if she up to my standards ?So I describe her but focusing more on the personality side of things , but I don’t go to deep .

Lately iv started adding a part about looking for a chick that has no hang ups about sex that I can share amazing sex with! Then are be like ‘you know any one like that ?’ I all ways get a shy smile or ‘yeah I can hook you up if you want’ some times but rare I get ‘do I look like a dating agency’ lol.

After that I go in to my routine about my last relationship being bad and has put me of relationships. (A lot of the chicks agree with me and understand I thought that was kinda weird!) so I aint looking for nothing serious and that works pretty well for me i got my current **** buddy from basically doing that.
 
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