"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

A new don juan is born

M

madinferno

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 17, 2001
Messages
18
Reaction score
0
This has been the best month of my life. I've spoken to a bunch of girls. I was once a very very very shy guy. I'd talk and ask out 1 girl a year. It literally took me 6 months to ask them out. It's suprising to see how far I've come. I had no idea it was possible. I finally have the confidence to go up to any girl i'm interested in. I even got a girl that I was interested in to approach me! I owe it all to this site and everyone on the message board. Thanks guys...

This feels rather pointless to say, but, you have to just get out there and talk to them. I've read plenty of articles with people saying that they were once as shy as I was, and that I should "just do it". I thought they were nuts. hahahhaha. Most of you are probably saying that about me now, but it's ok. You will reach this possition, and may even say the same thing in the future. GL

[This message has been edited by madinferno (edited 01-17-2002).]
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

P

PoachR75

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2002
Messages
306
Reaction score
1
Location
Pennsylvania
BUMPBUMPBUMP

I love the smell of victory in the morning!

------------------
Treat the Ho's like queens and the queens like ho's. Do it. No guilt.
 
M

Master of the Universe

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2002
Messages
396
Reaction score
12
All hail the new Don Juan!

Congratulations, and keep up the great attitude!

Master of the Universe
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

W

Wizdom

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2002
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
What else do you need other than to have fun... Enjoy yourself~

Absolutly nothing to lose all to gain.......!
 
H

hannibal82

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 23, 2002
Messages
222
Reaction score
1
Location
Michigan, USA
congratulations man!! sounds like you have arrived . Keep it up, and keep us posted on whats happening! I will get to this point in time.....i'm still working on it but this is very encouraging
 
G

Gungnir

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2002
Messages
111
Reaction score
0
Location
Melbourne, Australia
Congrats madinferno! This is just the sort of inspiration I need.

I'm making progress - but it's posts like yours that really keep me focussed and motivated. Thanks Champ.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top