"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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madinferno

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This has been the best month of my life. I've spoken to a bunch of girls. I was once a very very very shy guy. I'd talk and ask out 1 girl a year. It literally took me 6 months to ask them out. It's suprising to see how far I've come. I had no idea it was possible. I finally have the confidence to go up to any girl i'm interested in. I even got a girl that I was interested in to approach me! I owe it all to this site and everyone on the message board. Thanks guys...

This feels rather pointless to say, but, you have to just get out there and talk to them. I've read plenty of articles with people saying that they were once as shy as I was, and that I should "just do it". I thought they were nuts. hahahhaha. Most of you are probably saying that about me now, but it's ok. You will reach this possition, and may even say the same thing in the future. GL

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PoachR75

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BUMPBUMPBUMP

I love the smell of victory in the morning!

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Treat the Ho's like queens and the queens like ho's. Do it. No guilt.
 
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Master of the Universe

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All hail the new Don Juan!

Congratulations, and keep up the great attitude!

Master of the Universe
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wizdom

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What else do you need other than to have fun... Enjoy yourself~

Absolutly nothing to lose all to gain.......!
 
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hannibal82

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congratulations man!! sounds like you have arrived . Keep it up, and keep us posted on whats happening! I will get to this point in time.....i'm still working on it but this is very encouraging
 
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Congrats madinferno! This is just the sort of inspiration I need.

I'm making progress - but it's posts like yours that really keep me focussed and motivated. Thanks Champ.
 
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