"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Von Neuen
Fatuous pedants agglomerate abstruse vocabularies merely to obfuscate meaning.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Von Neuen
Fatuous pedants agglomerate abstruse vocabularies merely to obfuscate meaning.
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hahahahaha

Back to the original post, it's a good idea, although not a new one. If your target is for some reason inaccessible, then you can open one of her friends. But, I would NOT reccomend closing the entire group.

Think about it. The whole point of the contact close is to show that she is interested in you. The number itself is meaningless. After all, you could just look it up in the phone book. It's the fact that she wants you to call which is important.

If you get #s from the entire group, then she won't know what your intentions are, and she'll give you her number even if she doesn't want you to call, leading to an even higher flake rate than normal with numbers. Also, this comes off as underhanded and weak, not the impression you want to convey.

-Dan
 
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