"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Von Neuen
Fatuous pedants agglomerate abstruse vocabularies merely to obfuscate meaning.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Von Neuen
Fatuous pedants agglomerate abstruse vocabularies merely to obfuscate meaning.
hahahahaha

Back to the original post, it's a good idea, although not a new one. If your target is for some reason inaccessible, then you can open one of her friends. But, I would NOT reccomend closing the entire group.

Think about it. The whole point of the contact close is to show that she is interested in you. The number itself is meaningless. After all, you could just look it up in the phone book. It's the fact that she wants you to call which is important.

If you get #s from the entire group, then she won't know what your intentions are, and she'll give you her number even if she doesn't want you to call, leading to an even higher flake rate than normal with numbers. Also, this comes off as underhanded and weak, not the impression you want to convey.

-Dan
 
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