"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a new C & F thread

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
While I definitely see the merit of C & F in application, it always seems to sound so lame when you read it in print. It comes off as scripted lines. I'm not doubting it works, but it's a situational technique and therefore a skill that has to be developed under certain circumstance that are relative to what's going on in the conversation and environment. A high IL is most definitely a prerequisite for C & F or again it comes off as a "hey babe, what's your sign?" type comment and you're an instant fool.

I actually use C & F with my wife all the time and after 8.5 years it still works well,....well at least in knowing I'm going to get some that evening.


:p

Actually, high IL is not needed and in fact anulls the primary purpose of CF: to pump BT and build attraction.

CF is to be used in the attract phase along with a neg or two if needed.

Without further ado, here's a compilation of CF lines. Credit to Feminator.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am making a new thread in "Don Juan Discussion" with the lines.

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wow... this is c&f heaven,
ime guna be feasting on this stuff for weeks..
good post :D
 

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@ catch

notice your from birmingham

where do you normally go out in town then? assuming you do.
 
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