"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Duke

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
While I definitely see the merit of C & F in application, it always seems to sound so lame when you read it in print. It comes off as scripted lines. I'm not doubting it works, but it's a situational technique and therefore a skill that has to be developed under certain circumstance that are relative to what's going on in the conversation and environment. A high IL is most definitely a prerequisite for C & F or again it comes off as a "hey babe, what's your sign?" type comment and you're an instant fool.

I actually use C & F with my wife all the time and after 8.5 years it still works well,....well at least in knowing I'm going to get some that evening.


:p

Actually, high IL is not needed and in fact anulls the primary purpose of CF: to pump BT and build attraction.

CF is to be used in the attract phase along with a neg or two if needed.

Without further ado, here's a compilation of CF lines. Credit to Feminator.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am making a new thread in "Don Juan Discussion" with the lines.

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wow... this is c&f heaven,
ime guna be feasting on this stuff for weeks..
good post :D
 

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@ catch

notice your from birmingham

where do you normally go out in town then? assuming you do.
 
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