LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
Before I joined this forum I was always a funny person, that wasn't an aspect that I needed to work on.
I've always had the ability to make people laugh, more so in one on one situations simply because I often lacked the confidence to crack jokes to classes full of people and the like.
I suppose the only notable difference in that side of my personality since joining the forum is the fact that I now do crack jokes infront of classes full of people, and successfully as well.
Now humour plays a large part in being able to successfully NEG hit, seeing as there has to be something in there to differentiate it from just being plain insulting.
Therefore if you feel that humour is an area you need to work on then it may be wise to get it to a better level before you attempt a NEG hit, or you may find yourself getting slapped.
It took me a while to learn to apply my sense of humour to NEG hits, which inevitably encountered a few failures along the way.
The one which I'm most proud of occured last Thursday at College.
I'd been gone a couple of weeks and had got back that day and went and talked to a HB8 who I spoke to fairly frequently in College.
When I got there she was being fairly blank, not rude or anything but slightly cold and not the warm exterior which I'd gradually built up before I'd left.
Rather than worrying about the reason behind it like I used to before joining this place (cheers lads), I just assumed she'd had a bad day or whatever and carried on as normal.
Now I know you're all thinking that using NEG hits on HB8's isn't the best of ideas but this girl is very sure of herself and needs to be taken down a pedestal or two to avoid getting pissed about by her. Infact, this very example will go some way to showing you her level of self-confidence, or "self-appreciation" as she calls it.
We got on the topic of her at work, she works at some chineese restaraunt where sleezy blokes hit on her.We then got onto the topic of the amount of tips she gets off these blokes:
HB8: One night me and all the other girls combined collected £80 tips.
Me: (looking confused) Were all the other girls really fit or something?
HB8: (smiling) I'd forgotten how annoying you are.
From then on the cold exterior went.
Now I know what you're thinking, that the NEG it's self wasn't that ingenious, the actual humour involved is nothing special.
Fortunately the purpose of NEG hits is not to have the girl in fits of laughter, it's to bring her down a notch or two and destroy and ***** shield that may be apparent, whilst at the same time just raising interest slightly.
That is exactly what that NEG achieved, down to pin point accuracy.
I'm very proud of that paticular one.
I've always had the ability to make people laugh, more so in one on one situations simply because I often lacked the confidence to crack jokes to classes full of people and the like.
I suppose the only notable difference in that side of my personality since joining the forum is the fact that I now do crack jokes infront of classes full of people, and successfully as well.
Now humour plays a large part in being able to successfully NEG hit, seeing as there has to be something in there to differentiate it from just being plain insulting.
Therefore if you feel that humour is an area you need to work on then it may be wise to get it to a better level before you attempt a NEG hit, or you may find yourself getting slapped.
It took me a while to learn to apply my sense of humour to NEG hits, which inevitably encountered a few failures along the way.
The one which I'm most proud of occured last Thursday at College.
I'd been gone a couple of weeks and had got back that day and went and talked to a HB8 who I spoke to fairly frequently in College.
When I got there she was being fairly blank, not rude or anything but slightly cold and not the warm exterior which I'd gradually built up before I'd left.
Rather than worrying about the reason behind it like I used to before joining this place (cheers lads
), I just assumed she'd had a bad day or whatever and carried on as normal.Now I know you're all thinking that using NEG hits on HB8's isn't the best of ideas but this girl is very sure of herself and needs to be taken down a pedestal or two to avoid getting pissed about by her. Infact, this very example will go some way to showing you her level of self-confidence, or "self-appreciation" as she calls it.
We got on the topic of her at work, she works at some chineese restaraunt where sleezy blokes hit on her.We then got onto the topic of the amount of tips she gets off these blokes:
HB8: One night me and all the other girls combined collected £80 tips.
Me: (looking confused) Were all the other girls really fit or something?
HB8: (smiling) I'd forgotten how annoying you are.
From then on the cold exterior went.
Now I know what you're thinking, that the NEG it's self wasn't that ingenious, the actual humour involved is nothing special.
Fortunately the purpose of NEG hits is not to have the girl in fits of laughter, it's to bring her down a notch or two and destroy and ***** shield that may be apparent, whilst at the same time just raising interest slightly.
That is exactly what that NEG achieved, down to pin point accuracy.
I'm very proud of that paticular one.