"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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a needy girl now, but 2y ago I got a crush

Silko

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Hi

2 years ago I got something like a instant crush on a nice girl.
We met in a bar in Barcelona together with common friends.
We never met again afterwards. She was too in a relationship that time.

Last 2 years I stumbled in another relationship that ended recently (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....ed-to-talks-to-nc-to-recontact-by-her.235669/). So, I'm myself still in a healing process, but getting girl attention is always nice and helps too to boost you again.

Suddenly that girl of 2 years ago pops up again. Actually through a work request via a same common friend. After chatting about the project we can do together, she shifted to private chat.
Long chats on whatsapp. She is definitely interested. But needy too.
Just after we met 2 years ago she got dumped after a 10 years relationship.

And now the real 'but'. She is clearly still healing. She talks too much on her suffer and sounds very needy. She sends picture of her like we know each other very well. Actually she just ruines the magic for me.

Keeping distance until she is healed, or what to do here?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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