"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a needy girl now, but 2y ago I got a crush

Silko

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Hi

2 years ago I got something like a instant crush on a nice girl.
We met in a bar in Barcelona together with common friends.
We never met again afterwards. She was too in a relationship that time.

Last 2 years I stumbled in another relationship that ended recently (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....ed-to-talks-to-nc-to-recontact-by-her.235669/). So, I'm myself still in a healing process, but getting girl attention is always nice and helps too to boost you again.

Suddenly that girl of 2 years ago pops up again. Actually through a work request via a same common friend. After chatting about the project we can do together, she shifted to private chat.
Long chats on whatsapp. She is definitely interested. But needy too.
Just after we met 2 years ago she got dumped after a 10 years relationship.

And now the real 'but'. She is clearly still healing. She talks too much on her suffer and sounds very needy. She sends picture of her like we know each other very well. Actually she just ruines the magic for me.

Keeping distance until she is healed, or what to do here?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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