"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

a needy girl now, but 2y ago I got a crush

Silko

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 7, 2016
Messages
97
Reaction score
25
Location
Europe
Hi

2 years ago I got something like a instant crush on a nice girl.
We met in a bar in Barcelona together with common friends.
We never met again afterwards. She was too in a relationship that time.

Last 2 years I stumbled in another relationship that ended recently (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....ed-to-talks-to-nc-to-recontact-by-her.235669/). So, I'm myself still in a healing process, but getting girl attention is always nice and helps too to boost you again.

Suddenly that girl of 2 years ago pops up again. Actually through a work request via a same common friend. After chatting about the project we can do together, she shifted to private chat.
Long chats on whatsapp. She is definitely interested. But needy too.
Just after we met 2 years ago she got dumped after a 10 years relationship.

And now the real 'but'. She is clearly still healing. She talks too much on her suffer and sounds very needy. She sends picture of her like we know each other very well. Actually she just ruines the magic for me.

Keeping distance until she is healed, or what to do here?
 
Last edited:

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top