"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A need for a new forum

Buck Rogers

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hey, anybody think there should be a new forum based around fahsion and grooming?

I know the health and fitness forum sometimes does but it's often geared more toward working out and medical problems.

Perhaps its time for people to share their views on cologones, clothes and cosmetics.

Just a thought.

what do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Buck Rogers

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Hey dude, pretty cool stuff there,just what i was after;
but i was thinking along the lines of this site. do you think it might not work?
 

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I think here, guys want to act all macho and act like they are testosterone junkies. So sites like those don't work because the guys here think it's about being metrosexual, gay, etc. There's that "girly" stigma to caring about the way you dress and groom yourself.

I personally think it would be great. But then again, I'm also a member of styleforum.net because the guys there really know their sh*t. I mean, if you want to talk about style, that is the place. Guys here, if I asked about a shirt or pants, they would flame or scream metro, or otherwise tell you to not care and just be confident, and the guys who actually help would be few and far between.

I think it's good to visit different forums for different niche subjects. When you have a forum that discusses everything, you lose rich content and get replies that are not nearly as valuable.

Good luck though, with your search for such a forum.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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~attrACTION~ said:
I think here, guys want to act all macho and act like they are testosterone junkies. So sites like those don't work because the guys here think it's about being metrosexual, gay, etc. There's that "girly" stigma to caring about the way you dress and groom yourself.

I personally think it would be great. But then again, I'm also a member of styleforum.net because the guys there really know their sh*t. I mean, if you want to talk about style, that is the place.
Guys here, if I asked about a shirt or pants, they would flame or scream metro, or otherwise tell you to not care and just be confident, and the guys who actually help would be few and far between.

I think it's good to visit different forums for different niche subjects. When you have a forum that discusses everything, you lose rich content and get replies that are not nearly as valuable.

Good luck though, with your search for such a forum.
asd
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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