"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A need for a new forum

Buck Rogers

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hey, anybody think there should be a new forum based around fahsion and grooming?

I know the health and fitness forum sometimes does but it's often geared more toward working out and medical problems.

Perhaps its time for people to share their views on cologones, clothes and cosmetics.

Just a thought.

what do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Buck Rogers

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Hey dude, pretty cool stuff there,just what i was after;
but i was thinking along the lines of this site. do you think it might not work?
 

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I think here, guys want to act all macho and act like they are testosterone junkies. So sites like those don't work because the guys here think it's about being metrosexual, gay, etc. There's that "girly" stigma to caring about the way you dress and groom yourself.

I personally think it would be great. But then again, I'm also a member of styleforum.net because the guys there really know their sh*t. I mean, if you want to talk about style, that is the place. Guys here, if I asked about a shirt or pants, they would flame or scream metro, or otherwise tell you to not care and just be confident, and the guys who actually help would be few and far between.

I think it's good to visit different forums for different niche subjects. When you have a forum that discusses everything, you lose rich content and get replies that are not nearly as valuable.

Good luck though, with your search for such a forum.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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~attrACTION~ said:
I think here, guys want to act all macho and act like they are testosterone junkies. So sites like those don't work because the guys here think it's about being metrosexual, gay, etc. There's that "girly" stigma to caring about the way you dress and groom yourself.

I personally think it would be great. But then again, I'm also a member of styleforum.net because the guys there really know their sh*t. I mean, if you want to talk about style, that is the place.
Guys here, if I asked about a shirt or pants, they would flame or scream metro, or otherwise tell you to not care and just be confident, and the guys who actually help would be few and far between.

I think it's good to visit different forums for different niche subjects. When you have a forum that discusses everything, you lose rich content and get replies that are not nearly as valuable.

Good luck though, with your search for such a forum.
asd
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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