That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
From everything I've seen and heard Mike Brown brought it on himself. Any person, regardless of race, who punches a cop, tries to steal his gun, and charges at him is going to get tased at the least and killed at the most. Unfortunately Ofc Wilson didn't have a Taser. That would've been a more appropriate usage of force against an unarmed man. But clearly the grand jury believes this is what happened and that it counts as legitimate fear and a legitimate and legal response.Danger said:The issue I see with this is, everyone seems to claim that Mike Brown was an angel. The community swarms to protect their own, regardless of how much they deserve what they get.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This is true, and the Black community needs to address it better. However to shoot down accusations of police brutality by pointing out this fact is problematic in that:Danger said:Blacks are killing far more blacks in this country than police officers are.
I agree with this.I see whites as being targeted by blacks, the MSM and even the executive branch of the US now.
FairShake said:This is true, and the Black community needs to address it better. However to shoot down accusations of police brutality by pointing out this fact is problematic in that:
1.) Black people who shoot Black people are pursued, caught, prosecuted, and jailed. There is no political power stopping it. Police who do so mostly are not.
2.) It's insulting to downplay the death of Black people in this manner just like when Leftists and other people around the world downplayed the murder of 3,000 Americans on 9/11 by saying "Americans are killing far more Americans in this country and terrorists are."
I agree with this.
LulzFatal Jay said:I'm still trying to figure out how your punching a cop, but yet the cop has no marks on his face
this is a white supremacy at it's finest, where people get rewarded for killing blacks.
calling blacks thugs is the new code word for being called the n-word. I know exactly how you feel because I feel the same about whites at this point.
it is inherently evil breeding inside the white race, just because of the color of someone skin or the fear you hold.
All over the world, the world is growing hatred for whites, you go to war with all these brown skin countries and think these people don't hate you for it.
You killed blacks, middle eastern, want to go to china, and hell even the Russians despise you.
Hey, don't let a thing like facts get in the way of an opportunity to accuse people of being a racist or white supremecist!!Fatal Jay said:I'm still trying to figure out how your punching a cop, but yet the cop has no marks on his face
this is a white supremacy at it's finest, where people get rewarded for killing blacks.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ha, no doubt. I could not even come with anything to reply to him with, his post was so predictably ignorant. People like him see only what they want to see. They must stay angry. Fatal Jay is a lost cause, but at least he is predictable.Peaks&Valleys said:Hey, don't let a thing like facts get in the way of an opportunity to accuse people of being a racist or white supremecist!!
Well when your emotion gets the best of you, and you just HAVE to go out and beat up or kill whitey, make sure it's a typical sh*t-lib millenial.Fatal Jay said:I know exactly how you feel because I feel the same about whites at this point.
I bet if you asked all these different people which neighborhood they would rather live in, Watts or Orange County, you'd find out real fast what race they hate. Which country is safer for a random Asian dude, Germany or Somalia?Fatal Jay said:All over the world, the world is growing hatred for whites, you go to war with all these brown skin countries and think these people don't hate you for it.
Just curious, if any of these people came over here to conquer the US, you think they will spare you because you are black, meaning they hate you less?Fatal Jay said:You killed blacks, middle eastern, want to go to china, and hell even the Russians despise you.