Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
From everything I've seen and heard Mike Brown brought it on himself. Any person, regardless of race, who punches a cop, tries to steal his gun, and charges at him is going to get tased at the least and killed at the most. Unfortunately Ofc Wilson didn't have a Taser. That would've been a more appropriate usage of force against an unarmed man. But clearly the grand jury believes this is what happened and that it counts as legitimate fear and a legitimate and legal response.Danger said:The issue I see with this is, everyone seems to claim that Mike Brown was an angel. The community swarms to protect their own, regardless of how much they deserve what they get.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is true, and the Black community needs to address it better. However to shoot down accusations of police brutality by pointing out this fact is problematic in that:Danger said:Blacks are killing far more blacks in this country than police officers are.
I agree with this.I see whites as being targeted by blacks, the MSM and even the executive branch of the US now.
FairShake said:This is true, and the Black community needs to address it better. However to shoot down accusations of police brutality by pointing out this fact is problematic in that:
1.) Black people who shoot Black people are pursued, caught, prosecuted, and jailed. There is no political power stopping it. Police who do so mostly are not.
2.) It's insulting to downplay the death of Black people in this manner just like when Leftists and other people around the world downplayed the murder of 3,000 Americans on 9/11 by saying "Americans are killing far more Americans in this country and terrorists are."
I agree with this.
LulzFatal Jay said:I'm still trying to figure out how your punching a cop, but yet the cop has no marks on his face
this is a white supremacy at it's finest, where people get rewarded for killing blacks.
calling blacks thugs is the new code word for being called the n-word. I know exactly how you feel because I feel the same about whites at this point.
it is inherently evil breeding inside the white race, just because of the color of someone skin or the fear you hold.
All over the world, the world is growing hatred for whites, you go to war with all these brown skin countries and think these people don't hate you for it.
You killed blacks, middle eastern, want to go to china, and hell even the Russians despise you.
Hey, don't let a thing like facts get in the way of an opportunity to accuse people of being a racist or white supremecist!!Fatal Jay said:I'm still trying to figure out how your punching a cop, but yet the cop has no marks on his face
this is a white supremacy at it's finest, where people get rewarded for killing blacks.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ha, no doubt. I could not even come with anything to reply to him with, his post was so predictably ignorant. People like him see only what they want to see. They must stay angry. Fatal Jay is a lost cause, but at least he is predictable.Peaks&Valleys said:Hey, don't let a thing like facts get in the way of an opportunity to accuse people of being a racist or white supremecist!!
Well when your emotion gets the best of you, and you just HAVE to go out and beat up or kill whitey, make sure it's a typical sh*t-lib millenial.Fatal Jay said:I know exactly how you feel because I feel the same about whites at this point.
I bet if you asked all these different people which neighborhood they would rather live in, Watts or Orange County, you'd find out real fast what race they hate. Which country is safer for a random Asian dude, Germany or Somalia?Fatal Jay said:All over the world, the world is growing hatred for whites, you go to war with all these brown skin countries and think these people don't hate you for it.
Just curious, if any of these people came over here to conquer the US, you think they will spare you because you are black, meaning they hate you less?Fatal Jay said:You killed blacks, middle eastern, want to go to china, and hell even the Russians despise you.