"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A mistake most guys do

JdelaSilviera

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When trying to seduce women, many guys will change completely the way they talk to a "flirty mode talk". You probably know what I´m talking about, they will put a goofy smile on their face, act a little bit like clowns, and talk to a women like they were talking to a retard.

Although many women smile, it doesn´t mean they are going to give you any chance, they just feel pretty because you are blatantly hitting on her.

Other guys will go completely in the other direction, and will talk like a super confident taxi driver, or construction worker, who speaks super loudly, super annoying due to "excess" of confidence.

Speak slowly, in a calm, cool, collected, charming way. Also don´t twist all your face while speaking, wrinkling your forehead and face... you are making yourself much much uglier.... and it´s gay to exaggerate facial expressions

I tested this and the effect is simply great, women will be much more attracted to you...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sstype

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Aaahh cringe...I'm guilty of falling in this trap also. Overdoing the whole "funny charming casanova" routine just makes you look like a try-hard goober. You get too excited about the woman and fall into this need to "entertain" her presence.

Calm, cool, sexual, confident....with a little humor and lightheartedness peppered in is money for getting laid.

Good post man.
 

Eternal_water

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ahh this is at least one common mistake I can honestly say I do not make
 

bigneil

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Poke-her face?

If you tilt your head to one side it's a sign of inferiority (wolf submitting to other wolf).

You want a serene expression of being generally satisfied.
 

JCballin88

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I'm majorly guilty of this one...I get wayy too outcome-dependent on my interactions with them, so of course I start acting goofy and try way too hard to entertain.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fly By Night

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Thank you, I remember when I first started trying day-game, and looked like a nerd who just finished reading his first PUA book.

It's true, real game has to come from within and is not only one type of personality.
 
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