"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A mistake most guys do

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JdelaSilviera

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When trying to seduce women, many guys will change completely the way they talk to a "flirty mode talk". You probably know what I´m talking about, they will put a goofy smile on their face, act a little bit like clowns, and talk to a women like they were talking to a retard.

Although many women smile, it doesn´t mean they are going to give you any chance, they just feel pretty because you are blatantly hitting on her.

Other guys will go completely in the other direction, and will talk like a super confident taxi driver, or construction worker, who speaks super loudly, super annoying due to "excess" of confidence.

Speak slowly, in a calm, cool, collected, charming way. Also don´t twist all your face while speaking, wrinkling your forehead and face... you are making yourself much much uglier.... and it´s gay to exaggerate facial expressions

I tested this and the effect is simply great, women will be much more attracted to you...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aaahh cringe...I'm guilty of falling in this trap also. Overdoing the whole "funny charming casanova" routine just makes you look like a try-hard goober. You get too excited about the woman and fall into this need to "entertain" her presence.

Calm, cool, sexual, confident....with a little humor and lightheartedness peppered in is money for getting laid.

Good post man.
 
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ahh this is at least one common mistake I can honestly say I do not make
 
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Poke-her face?

If you tilt your head to one side it's a sign of inferiority (wolf submitting to other wolf).

You want a serene expression of being generally satisfied.
 
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I'm majorly guilty of this one...I get wayy too outcome-dependent on my interactions with them, so of course I start acting goofy and try way too hard to entertain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thank you, I remember when I first started trying day-game, and looked like a nerd who just finished reading his first PUA book.

It's true, real game has to come from within and is not only one type of personality.
 
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