"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A mistake most guys do

JdelaSilviera

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When trying to seduce women, many guys will change completely the way they talk to a "flirty mode talk". You probably know what I´m talking about, they will put a goofy smile on their face, act a little bit like clowns, and talk to a women like they were talking to a retard.

Although many women smile, it doesn´t mean they are going to give you any chance, they just feel pretty because you are blatantly hitting on her.

Other guys will go completely in the other direction, and will talk like a super confident taxi driver, or construction worker, who speaks super loudly, super annoying due to "excess" of confidence.

Speak slowly, in a calm, cool, collected, charming way. Also don´t twist all your face while speaking, wrinkling your forehead and face... you are making yourself much much uglier.... and it´s gay to exaggerate facial expressions

I tested this and the effect is simply great, women will be much more attracted to you...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sstype

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Aaahh cringe...I'm guilty of falling in this trap also. Overdoing the whole "funny charming casanova" routine just makes you look like a try-hard goober. You get too excited about the woman and fall into this need to "entertain" her presence.

Calm, cool, sexual, confident....with a little humor and lightheartedness peppered in is money for getting laid.

Good post man.
 

Eternal_water

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ahh this is at least one common mistake I can honestly say I do not make
 

bigneil

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Poke-her face?

If you tilt your head to one side it's a sign of inferiority (wolf submitting to other wolf).

You want a serene expression of being generally satisfied.
 

JCballin88

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I'm majorly guilty of this one...I get wayy too outcome-dependent on my interactions with them, so of course I start acting goofy and try way too hard to entertain.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fly By Night

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Thank you, I remember when I first started trying day-game, and looked like a nerd who just finished reading his first PUA book.

It's true, real game has to come from within and is not only one type of personality.
 
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