"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A mentally fvcked up girl that I still wanna have sex with

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Bottom line, cuz I wanna avoid long stories:

chilled with her Wedensday night, she told me she wants to fvck me so bad next time she sees me (we made plans to get a hotel room) and she told me that 10 times, moaned when I kissed her, everything that points to easy sex.

Next day, she tells me on myspace "we might not have sex, dont be pissed"

shes been with 30 guys - she said it straight out with a straight face, no shame in it what so ever - aka A NYMPHO

bottom line - she has Borderline Personality Disorder (she told me), but she is a 9/10 lookswise, and I want to **** THE HELL OUTTA HER.

Should I bother? Its very easy to be pissed off at her for being such a bytch and I am not good with keeping my cool when it comes to bytches........but any advice on how to do that so I can just fvck her a couple times and never see her again? What would be the best way to act about this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i IMPLIED it by leaving flirting comments on her myspace yesterday, and she replied with "we might not have sex, dont be pissed" - i was flirting, she wasnt flirting back

but when we hung out, she literally was saying the words "im gonna **** u raw in the hotel room, I want you soooooooo bad"
 

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dude, it's simple really, it seems like when she is with you and your c0ck is withing reach, she wants is and wants to have sex with you. But when she is NOT with you, it is different.

Next time you take her out, make sure you have the hotel room booked. Then as she says that, say "oh... thats funny, i actually have a hotel room booked" :)

I've done that before and it worked. But I worded it like "well we can continue doing things here, or go somewhere more private where we can be alone, what do you think?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guys, keep in mind how she was acting while we hung out the first time - she LOVED the idea of hotel room, she TOLD me shes gonna **** the hell outta me when we are in the hotel room - she had no slut defense when she saw me

then she ****in pulls a 180 switcheroo THE NEXT DAY saying "we might not have sex"

thats seriously ****ed up in my opinion - but in a way i wanna just **** her, use her, *** in her eye, and never talk to her again

I just wanna know the best way to accomplish this - Fash's idea sounds good thus far, but i wanna hear more opinions
 

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Dont be flirtatious with a girl you just want to fuk, just be straight upwith her. Tell her all the things you're ganna do to her and what not, if she wants it that bad, she wotn need to eb flattered
 

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weird - when i was not implying anythign sexual (when we hung out), she initiated all sex talk and all the "iw anna **** u so badly" convo.

then when i posted a flirty comment on myspace (shes got a pic of her holding a big dildo in a sex shop) and i said "you won't be needing that ;) and THAT is when she replied with not having sex with me (literally 2 minutes later)

i simply cannot understand how and why a b1tch would be so mentally weird??!!!

oh yea quick mention - we were drinking when we hung out and she might have been tipsy when she was telling me how bad she wants to fvck me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't usually suggest this but if they have borderline personality disorder tap it and get your ass out of there.

BPD chicks are bad news and will fvck your life over. Get out while you can.

comic_relief
 

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when a woman uses sex as a weapon, it is to get the upperhand and gain control in a relationship.
wanna beat her at her own game, tell her that if you dont get some nookie soon, you will just be tempted to call up one of your other girlfriends.
 

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Comic is right. Whether it's their intention or not, BPD chicks can go off the wall at any time, and you could be in the firing line.

Anyway, dude, you're way over analysing it. If you want to screw her, go for the kill, if you don't, then don't. It's a pretty simple situation, you should be able to handle it with your experience, right?

There isn't always something to read between the lines for. And sometimes, it's just black and white.
 
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comic_relief said:
I don't usually suggest this but if they have borderline personality disorder tap it and get your ass out of there.

BPD chicks are bad news and will fvck your life over. Get out while you can.

comic_relief
LOL

Look, she said you might not. That means you're gonna have sex. Women play hard to get.

Keep after her, but keep that poker face and that sense of humor, my money says you'll bang her sooner or later. And yeah, when you cvm, then get the fvck out of there, as if somebody had just pulled the fire alarm.

Play it cool. You ever see that old sisonymph post where he has the girl meet him at his apt, tells her to come in, they go out for coffee. Then he just marches her right back after half an hour and fvcks her brains out!
 

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You should run when you can.

My ex has a borderline disorder, and i don't think you would like to experience
the same stuff as i have. They will dedicate there life to destroy you emotonally. They will lie, lie ,lie to make your friends hate you. So she has you for herself, and she will treat with suicide just to get controll over you.
You will ride on an emotonall rolercoaster with is really hard to get off.

If you don't get emotonall attached to her, sure, **** the hell out of her.
But they are masters to suck you in, so watch your steps.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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skip2mylou781 said:
i IMPLIED it by leaving flirting comments on her myspace yesterday, and she replied with "we might not have sex, dont be pissed" - i was flirting, she wasnt flirting back

but when we hung out, she literally was saying the words "im gonna **** u raw in the hotel room, I want you soooooooo bad"
:mad:HELLO TROLL - YOU ARE PATHETIC:mad:
 

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UPDATE: its saturday, hotel is booked, shes been ignoring me............now i really just want to tell her to **** off and call her a slut

i booked the room!!! and shes ignoring me!.......i could always cancel the room and not be charged for it so i guess its ok, but still what a b1tch!
 

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guys, keep in mind how she was acting while we hung out the first time - she LOVED the idea of hotel room, she TOLD me shes gonna **** the hell outta me when we are in the hotel room - she had no slut defense when she saw me

So what, just because she TOLD you that she wants to fvck the hell out of you doesn't mean she is GOING to. She's got you all wired up for nothing. I would take edmond's advice and move on.
 

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Advance physically, not verbally. Verbally she can be full of sh'it but if you're making out with her, fondling her, grinding her with your crotch and she likes it... you know she's serious. Then just lead her to the place and **** her. And use protection man, jees, she must have some pretty nasty diseases....
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
UPDATE: its saturday, hotel is booked, shes been ignoring me............now i really just want to tell her to **** off and call her a slut

i booked the room!!! and shes ignoring me!.......i could always cancel the room and not be charged for it so i guess its ok, but still what a b1tch!
Classic d*ck tease. She's got you by the collar and she is leading you wherever 'she' wants. Don't get mad or call her a b*tch or you will be feeding into her nonsense.

Get your money back, ignore this girl and act like a complete d*ck to her, but don't do it out of anger. Act like a d*ck because you don't give a $hit about her. Make sense?

These types of girls have emotional issues (damaged goods) and they love to be treated like $hit. Take her emotions on a roller coaster ride and she'll love you forever. Treat her the way a pimp treats his prostitutes, no love. Trust me bro, I’ve done it many times with these types of girls. They aren't happy unless there is some type of turmoil in their lives.

Now, it may take some time to flip it around, because she has an image of a 'chump' when your name crawls into her head, but it can be done.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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