"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A lot of wet dreams = high testosterone?

Voice

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These wet dreams are getting me pissed off. First of all I'm tired of waking up with my boxers all drenched in jizz and I have a roommate so its not like I can just get up and change. Seriously there are weeks when I get like 4 wet dreams.

I'm wondering if these could be from lifting. Every time I start up again or increase weight/reps I tend to get these wet dreams. So could it be that the increase of testosterone caused by the lifting has made me have so many dam wet dreams?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lukester19

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How often do you masturbate? It is possible that the wet dreams are caused from working out but if you are abstaining and working out that possibility is higher.
 

CaptainJ

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Voice said:
First of all I'm tired of waking up with my boxers all drenched in jizz
Haha, I can attest to this
 

Voice

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This may sound weird but I really have no opportunities to jerk off with 3 other roommates and all the schoolwork and other stuff I got to do. The only time I do is when I go home for the weekend every 3 weeks.
 

Pie in the Sky

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Well this looks pretty cut and dry. You are having wet dreams because you are not masturbating or having sex on a regular basis. You have to bust a nut on a regular basis whether it be voluntary or involuntarily.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shaunuk

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Yeah, it's because you're not ejaculating. You say you don't have opportunities to masturbate so this is an ideal time to go find some bird you can fvck on a regular basis = problem solved
 

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I masturbate a couple times a week but still have sexual dreams (not wet, but still having sex or heavy make-out, groping) a few times a week, usually involving celebrity women or hot women.
 

ENIGMA16

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Jerk off on the toilet. Aim down. Flush. Problem solved.
 

katatonia

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Voice said:
This may sound weird but I really have no opportunities to jerk off with 3 other roommates and all the schoolwork and other stuff I got to do. The only time I do is when I go home for the weekend every 3 weeks.

WTF do you stand in the middle of your house and wank or some sh1t?

Try pulling it in the toilet or shower. It really isn't that hard.
 

Da Realist

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You're 19 and have a lot of testosterone. You just need to find a woman to plow on a regular basis.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I always thought that wet dreams equaled more test.,I still believe it does. I've always found whenever I've gained the most in the gym was when I'd have these wet dreams non-stop.
 

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Da Realist said:
You're 19 and have a lot of testosterone. You just need to find a woman to plow on a regular basis.
Yup. Wet dreams are an involuntary release.

I stopped having wet dreams around 25. I might get one a year now. Once you're banging you prob wont get them anymore.
 

mrRuckus

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I've never had one. You are a filthy little boy and should be ashamed.
 

shaunuk

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Haha, I've honestly never had a wet dream, cause I was beating the meat by time I was 10. Seriously.
 
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