You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I personally think that those who believe that a seduction community exist in the first place are immature, inexperienced, naive, jealous, misinformed, anti-social, enablers. Follow the history of the seduction community and it mainly exists with guys online who exploit those that cant interact socially with ways to part with their money.GoSens said:
How so? Very few people that you are competing against now have ever read anything that these guys wrote, honestly how many girls do most of you know that would date guys like this anyways? Despite the exposure that this seduction community gets you are always going to be competing against the same group of guys that could care less. If anything the new (and my guess is it would be very few) entrants to the pua style are going to be those that you dont have to worry about (at least not for the short term as they will still be bad at picking up girls just better with delivering lines).GoSens said:Ohwell, less competition.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well that fine line is blured... alot... really alot. I believe that the larger reason to all the bashing, not because they are closed minded AFCs who loses all self-respect when it came to a girl just met two months ago, but because they see PUAs as a player, only even more calculative and manipulative (BTW, I think using "prey" is a bit bad word of choice).lildevil said:
You forgot frustrated. (AFC)GoSens said:
their futures so bright, they gotta wear shaaaades.Bonhomme said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Exactly. I think Mystery is a sellout. The ***** shields are going to go way up as more of them find out about this stuff. You use a neg and they'll be like "oh, is that some mystery method crap? I guess you're going to bust out a magic trick next right?"Master Bates said:
lol. If you look at it that way ...
picking up women is like getting laid people have been doing it for decades...so what if they know that were picking them up...its the truth...at least me.... I dont need boring canned lines to get girlz....I just learn how their method workz...it makes me betterMaster Bates said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.