Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I personally think that those who believe that a seduction community exist in the first place are immature, inexperienced, naive, jealous, misinformed, anti-social, enablers. Follow the history of the seduction community and it mainly exists with guys online who exploit those that cant interact socially with ways to part with their money.GoSens said:
How so? Very few people that you are competing against now have ever read anything that these guys wrote, honestly how many girls do most of you know that would date guys like this anyways? Despite the exposure that this seduction community gets you are always going to be competing against the same group of guys that could care less. If anything the new (and my guess is it would be very few) entrants to the pua style are going to be those that you dont have to worry about (at least not for the short term as they will still be bad at picking up girls just better with delivering lines).GoSens said:Ohwell, less competition.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well that fine line is blured... alot... really alot. I believe that the larger reason to all the bashing, not because they are closed minded AFCs who loses all self-respect when it came to a girl just met two months ago, but because they see PUAs as a player, only even more calculative and manipulative (BTW, I think using "prey" is a bit bad word of choice).lildevil said:
You forgot frustrated. (AFC)GoSens said:
their futures so bright, they gotta wear shaaaades.Bonhomme said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Exactly. I think Mystery is a sellout. The ***** shields are going to go way up as more of them find out about this stuff. You use a neg and they'll be like "oh, is that some mystery method crap? I guess you're going to bust out a magic trick next right?"Master Bates said:
lol. If you look at it that way ...
picking up women is like getting laid people have been doing it for decades...so what if they know that were picking them up...its the truth...at least me.... I dont need boring canned lines to get girlz....I just learn how their method workz...it makes me betterMaster Bates said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.