"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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a little weird with GF today...COULD USE DJ ASSISTANCE

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Just a quick question out of a small worry and big curiosity...since the people @ the high school section didnt bother to help =( I figured I could turn to the older DJ's.

when im with the volleyball guys on the home and away games, my girl and two other girls tag along to help out. Today, we sat together and we shared some pretty good kino and conversation, then when we got there, 3-5 of the guys on the team flirt and chitchat with her.

I thought I'd be alright if they talked you know? Her friends were my friends...but at times she was with them more than she is with me . However, somehow I don't feel worried; I know that she's into me more than my friends and she shows it through her actions when she's with me. On the other hand, it feels a little worrying that she's having a lot more fun with other dudes than she's been having with me lately. I've noticed I haven't been making her laugh as much as my friends have been. Regardless, I know it's something I shouldn't be jealous or insecure about...

Whether it's due to my lack of proper sleep lately or because we lost that game today I'm not sure, but I felt things were sort of wrong between me and her towards the end of the day. I just don't feel that funny to her anymore! I AM a guy with a good sense of humor and a romantic when it comes to me and my girl but I felt like today was a bit bizarre for me to behave outside of my normal self.

I'm reviewing the DJ BIble as we speak, but I could really use the support from you DJ's!

-WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?
-AM I OVERANALYZING THINGS THAT I SHOULD NOT EVEN WORRY ABOUT?
-HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION? SHOULD I FLIRT WITH THE OTHER 2 GIRLS OR FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO FOR FUN WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS or something?
Please analyze my little situation. It would help me greatly! Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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THIAGO BRAZIL II

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you can

flirt with the other 2 - but then she can go more to the other guys, and you will start a battle of who is making the other more jealous.

you can approach her when she is talking to them, go behind her grab her with a hug, kiss her long and passionate, and then look to the those guys, take a few seconds, look her in the eyes, say low tone in her ear , know why these minnows are always talking to you? because you my girl, you are so hot. Ill make you a surprise tonight.

then leave.
 
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YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeHHHHHHHHHHHHaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Read the BIBLE. Read the BIBLE. Read the BIBLE.

Don't just say you're reviewing it. Read the damn thing and understand it.

THEN come back here for more advice. Your problem is covered in depth.
 
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NOOBS and ISSUES.

j8snx1 said:
Just a quick question out of a small worry and big curiosity...since the people @ the high school section didnt bother to help =( I figured I could turn to the older DJ's.

when im with the volleyball guys on the home and away games, my girl and two other girls tag along to help out. Today, we sat together and we shared some pretty good kino and conversation, then when we got there, 3-5 of the guys on the team flirt and chitchat with her.

I thought I'd be alright if they talked you know? Her friends were my friends...but at times she was with them more than she is with me . However, somehow I don't feel worried; I know that she's into me more than my friends and she shows it through her actions when she's with me. On the other hand, it feels a little worrying that she's having a lot more fun with other dudes than she's been having with me lately. I've noticed I haven't been making her laugh as much as my friends have been. Regardless, I know it's something I shouldn't be jealous or insecure about...

Whether it's due to my lack of proper sleep lately or because we lost that game today I'm not sure, but I felt things were sort of wrong between me and her towards the end of the day. I just don't feel that funny to her anymore! I AM a guy with a good sense of humor and a romantic when it comes to me and my girl but I felt like today was a bit bizarre for me to behave outside of my normal self.

I'm reviewing the DJ BIble as we speak, but I could really use the support from you DJ's!

-WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?
-AM I OVERANALYZING THINGS THAT I SHOULD NOT EVEN WORRY ABOUT?
-HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION? SHOULD I FLIRT WITH THE OTHER 2 GIRLS OR FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO FOR FUN WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS or something?
Please analyze my little situation. It would help me greatly! Thanks.
OMG!!! OMG!!! I don't know what to doooooooo!!!!!!!!! Arghhhhh!!!!

Please! Please! Help me!!!

I'm desperate. Why!!!! Why!!! Could you guys hold my hand through this?


Ok, so you got a problem. But being desperate isn't going to help. So you FUKED UP. Shut up and figure out a way to FIX IT. Like the way a MAN does. Just pretend you're a man for a few minutes.

Ask yourself. How would a MAN handle this? How would he react? What would he do? Grab your balls and just do it. Stop thinking and listen to your balls. They know.

Otherwise, send that pretty little thing over to me. I know what to do with her.
 

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H*ll man if she wants the other guys there's NOTHING you can do about it. Don't be trying to fight either, that's ignorant. The game is like USC football, you can't win with defense, but you have more than enough offensive weapons to win with. Stay on top of your offense, and don't get defensive if another team (guy) tries to score. If the other guy DOES score, so what? You can't win them all. Go get another chick, you're in high school for crying out loud.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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