"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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a little weird with GF today...COULD USE DJ ASSISTANCE

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Just a quick question out of a small worry and big curiosity...since the people @ the high school section didnt bother to help =( I figured I could turn to the older DJ's.

when im with the volleyball guys on the home and away games, my girl and two other girls tag along to help out. Today, we sat together and we shared some pretty good kino and conversation, then when we got there, 3-5 of the guys on the team flirt and chitchat with her.

I thought I'd be alright if they talked you know? Her friends were my friends...but at times she was with them more than she is with me . However, somehow I don't feel worried; I know that she's into me more than my friends and she shows it through her actions when she's with me. On the other hand, it feels a little worrying that she's having a lot more fun with other dudes than she's been having with me lately. I've noticed I haven't been making her laugh as much as my friends have been. Regardless, I know it's something I shouldn't be jealous or insecure about...

Whether it's due to my lack of proper sleep lately or because we lost that game today I'm not sure, but I felt things were sort of wrong between me and her towards the end of the day. I just don't feel that funny to her anymore! I AM a guy with a good sense of humor and a romantic when it comes to me and my girl but I felt like today was a bit bizarre for me to behave outside of my normal self.

I'm reviewing the DJ BIble as we speak, but I could really use the support from you DJ's!

-WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?
-AM I OVERANALYZING THINGS THAT I SHOULD NOT EVEN WORRY ABOUT?
-HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION? SHOULD I FLIRT WITH THE OTHER 2 GIRLS OR FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO FOR FUN WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS or something?
Please analyze my little situation. It would help me greatly! Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you can

flirt with the other 2 - but then she can go more to the other guys, and you will start a battle of who is making the other more jealous.

you can approach her when she is talking to them, go behind her grab her with a hug, kiss her long and passionate, and then look to the those guys, take a few seconds, look her in the eyes, say low tone in her ear , know why these minnows are always talking to you? because you my girl, you are so hot. Ill make you a surprise tonight.

then leave.
 
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YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeHHHHHHHHHHHHaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Read the BIBLE. Read the BIBLE. Read the BIBLE.

Don't just say you're reviewing it. Read the damn thing and understand it.

THEN come back here for more advice. Your problem is covered in depth.
 
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NOOBS and ISSUES.

j8snx1 said:
Just a quick question out of a small worry and big curiosity...since the people @ the high school section didnt bother to help =( I figured I could turn to the older DJ's.

when im with the volleyball guys on the home and away games, my girl and two other girls tag along to help out. Today, we sat together and we shared some pretty good kino and conversation, then when we got there, 3-5 of the guys on the team flirt and chitchat with her.

I thought I'd be alright if they talked you know? Her friends were my friends...but at times she was with them more than she is with me . However, somehow I don't feel worried; I know that she's into me more than my friends and she shows it through her actions when she's with me. On the other hand, it feels a little worrying that she's having a lot more fun with other dudes than she's been having with me lately. I've noticed I haven't been making her laugh as much as my friends have been. Regardless, I know it's something I shouldn't be jealous or insecure about...

Whether it's due to my lack of proper sleep lately or because we lost that game today I'm not sure, but I felt things were sort of wrong between me and her towards the end of the day. I just don't feel that funny to her anymore! I AM a guy with a good sense of humor and a romantic when it comes to me and my girl but I felt like today was a bit bizarre for me to behave outside of my normal self.

I'm reviewing the DJ BIble as we speak, but I could really use the support from you DJ's!

-WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?
-AM I OVERANALYZING THINGS THAT I SHOULD NOT EVEN WORRY ABOUT?
-HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION? SHOULD I FLIRT WITH THE OTHER 2 GIRLS OR FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO FOR FUN WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS or something?
Please analyze my little situation. It would help me greatly! Thanks.
OMG!!! OMG!!! I don't know what to doooooooo!!!!!!!!! Arghhhhh!!!!

Please! Please! Help me!!!

I'm desperate. Why!!!! Why!!! Could you guys hold my hand through this?


Ok, so you got a problem. But being desperate isn't going to help. So you FUKED UP. Shut up and figure out a way to FIX IT. Like the way a MAN does. Just pretend you're a man for a few minutes.

Ask yourself. How would a MAN handle this? How would he react? What would he do? Grab your balls and just do it. Stop thinking and listen to your balls. They know.

Otherwise, send that pretty little thing over to me. I know what to do with her.
 

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H*ll man if she wants the other guys there's NOTHING you can do about it. Don't be trying to fight either, that's ignorant. The game is like USC football, you can't win with defense, but you have more than enough offensive weapons to win with. Stay on top of your offense, and don't get defensive if another team (guy) tries to score. If the other guy DOES score, so what? You can't win them all. Go get another chick, you're in high school for crying out loud.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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