"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a little weird with GF today...COULD USE DJ ASSISTANCE

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Just a quick question out of a small worry and big curiosity...since the people @ the high school section didnt bother to help =( I figured I could turn to the older DJ's.

when im with the volleyball guys on the home and away games, my girl and two other girls tag along to help out. Today, we sat together and we shared some pretty good kino and conversation, then when we got there, 3-5 of the guys on the team flirt and chitchat with her.

I thought I'd be alright if they talked you know? Her friends were my friends...but at times she was with them more than she is with me . However, somehow I don't feel worried; I know that she's into me more than my friends and she shows it through her actions when she's with me. On the other hand, it feels a little worrying that she's having a lot more fun with other dudes than she's been having with me lately. I've noticed I haven't been making her laugh as much as my friends have been. Regardless, I know it's something I shouldn't be jealous or insecure about...

Whether it's due to my lack of proper sleep lately or because we lost that game today I'm not sure, but I felt things were sort of wrong between me and her towards the end of the day. I just don't feel that funny to her anymore! I AM a guy with a good sense of humor and a romantic when it comes to me and my girl but I felt like today was a bit bizarre for me to behave outside of my normal self.

I'm reviewing the DJ BIble as we speak, but I could really use the support from you DJ's!

-WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?
-AM I OVERANALYZING THINGS THAT I SHOULD NOT EVEN WORRY ABOUT?
-HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION? SHOULD I FLIRT WITH THE OTHER 2 GIRLS OR FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO FOR FUN WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS or something?
Please analyze my little situation. It would help me greatly! Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you can

flirt with the other 2 - but then she can go more to the other guys, and you will start a battle of who is making the other more jealous.

you can approach her when she is talking to them, go behind her grab her with a hug, kiss her long and passionate, and then look to the those guys, take a few seconds, look her in the eyes, say low tone in her ear , know why these minnows are always talking to you? because you my girl, you are so hot. Ill make you a surprise tonight.

then leave.
 
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YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeHHHHHHHHHHHHaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Read the BIBLE. Read the BIBLE. Read the BIBLE.

Don't just say you're reviewing it. Read the damn thing and understand it.

THEN come back here for more advice. Your problem is covered in depth.
 
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NOOBS and ISSUES.

j8snx1 said:
Just a quick question out of a small worry and big curiosity...since the people @ the high school section didnt bother to help =( I figured I could turn to the older DJ's.

when im with the volleyball guys on the home and away games, my girl and two other girls tag along to help out. Today, we sat together and we shared some pretty good kino and conversation, then when we got there, 3-5 of the guys on the team flirt and chitchat with her.

I thought I'd be alright if they talked you know? Her friends were my friends...but at times she was with them more than she is with me . However, somehow I don't feel worried; I know that she's into me more than my friends and she shows it through her actions when she's with me. On the other hand, it feels a little worrying that she's having a lot more fun with other dudes than she's been having with me lately. I've noticed I haven't been making her laugh as much as my friends have been. Regardless, I know it's something I shouldn't be jealous or insecure about...

Whether it's due to my lack of proper sleep lately or because we lost that game today I'm not sure, but I felt things were sort of wrong between me and her towards the end of the day. I just don't feel that funny to her anymore! I AM a guy with a good sense of humor and a romantic when it comes to me and my girl but I felt like today was a bit bizarre for me to behave outside of my normal self.

I'm reviewing the DJ BIble as we speak, but I could really use the support from you DJ's!

-WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?
-AM I OVERANALYZING THINGS THAT I SHOULD NOT EVEN WORRY ABOUT?
-HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION? SHOULD I FLIRT WITH THE OTHER 2 GIRLS OR FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO FOR FUN WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS or something?
Please analyze my little situation. It would help me greatly! Thanks.
OMG!!! OMG!!! I don't know what to doooooooo!!!!!!!!! Arghhhhh!!!!

Please! Please! Help me!!!

I'm desperate. Why!!!! Why!!! Could you guys hold my hand through this?


Ok, so you got a problem. But being desperate isn't going to help. So you FUKED UP. Shut up and figure out a way to FIX IT. Like the way a MAN does. Just pretend you're a man for a few minutes.

Ask yourself. How would a MAN handle this? How would he react? What would he do? Grab your balls and just do it. Stop thinking and listen to your balls. They know.

Otherwise, send that pretty little thing over to me. I know what to do with her.
 

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H*ll man if she wants the other guys there's NOTHING you can do about it. Don't be trying to fight either, that's ignorant. The game is like USC football, you can't win with defense, but you have more than enough offensive weapons to win with. Stay on top of your offense, and don't get defensive if another team (guy) tries to score. If the other guy DOES score, so what? You can't win them all. Go get another chick, you're in high school for crying out loud.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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