"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KneghtRyder

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A girl I went on a 1st date with asked me

"what are you doing in the mall ?"

I replied,

"picking up girls".


Now, I told myself afterwards at least I was honest and I didn't want to be a puzzy and lie about it.

needless to say, I think she won't be seeing me again. I don't know I didn't ask for a second date.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KneghtRyder said:
A girl I went on a 1st date with asked me

"what are you doing in the mall ?"

I replied,

"picking up girls".


Now, I told myself afterwards at least I was honest and I didn't want to be a puzzy and lie about it.

needless to say, I think she won't be seeing me again. I don't know I didn't ask for a second date.
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The next time you see her and she asks you how it went, just be like:
"Yeah I tried picking up chicks, but I gotta admitt none of the chicks I met were as cool as you. There is no reason for you to be jealous.:rolleyes: "
 
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TheWorldIsNotEnough

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Come on man. You will be ok. All that happened, probably, was that she put up another shield for you to parry away.

A little advice though, never admit that YOU are picking up "girls." GIRLS want YOU, not the other way around. Something around the lines of being the fire and not the moth...(cliche, I know)

If you are indeffinately infatuated with this girl, the best advice I would give is to continue being "honest." But, please do it so that it advantages you. Dont go for another "witty" line.

I cant really tell you specifically what to say, but I dont think that will be too big of a problem for you. A little thought can go a long way.

Most likely however, she probably isnt worth any extra effort. Just learn from previous experiences mate.(notice i didnt say "mistake")

All the luck to you, my friend...
 
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Yeah, I have a problem with honesty sometimes too.

The other day I was out and a girl I must have it on when I was drunk or something came up and said, "hey I met you before." She was really nice and friendly.

"really? I don't remember."

"You mistook me someone you knew."

"I was probably just making that **** up." I admitted.

She walked away.

Just laugh.

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Eventually you'll learn to censor what you say. You can still be honest without saying sh!t that'll get you in trouble - just keep the information vague.

So wait .. you took a girl to the mall with you and told her you were there to pick up chicks while she was next to you? That's just dumb.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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