"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KneghtRyder

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A girl I went on a 1st date with asked me

"what are you doing in the mall ?"

I replied,

"picking up girls".


Now, I told myself afterwards at least I was honest and I didn't want to be a puzzy and lie about it.

needless to say, I think she won't be seeing me again. I don't know I didn't ask for a second date.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChrizZ

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KneghtRyder said:
A girl I went on a 1st date with asked me

"what are you doing in the mall ?"

I replied,

"picking up girls".


Now, I told myself afterwards at least I was honest and I didn't want to be a puzzy and lie about it.

needless to say, I think she won't be seeing me again. I don't know I didn't ask for a second date.
The next time you see her and she asks you how it went, just be like:
"Yeah I tried picking up chicks, but I gotta admitt none of the chicks I met were as cool as you. There is no reason for you to be jealous.:rolleyes: "
 
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Come on man. You will be ok. All that happened, probably, was that she put up another shield for you to parry away.

A little advice though, never admit that YOU are picking up "girls." GIRLS want YOU, not the other way around. Something around the lines of being the fire and not the moth...(cliche, I know)

If you are indeffinately infatuated with this girl, the best advice I would give is to continue being "honest." But, please do it so that it advantages you. Dont go for another "witty" line.

I cant really tell you specifically what to say, but I dont think that will be too big of a problem for you. A little thought can go a long way.

Most likely however, she probably isnt worth any extra effort. Just learn from previous experiences mate.(notice i didnt say "mistake")

All the luck to you, my friend...
 

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Yeah, I have a problem with honesty sometimes too.

The other day I was out and a girl I must have it on when I was drunk or something came up and said, "hey I met you before." She was really nice and friendly.

"really? I don't remember."

"You mistook me someone you knew."

"I was probably just making that **** up." I admitted.

She walked away.

Just laugh.

JJ
 

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Eventually you'll learn to censor what you say. You can still be honest without saying sh!t that'll get you in trouble - just keep the information vague.

So wait .. you took a girl to the mall with you and told her you were there to pick up chicks while she was next to you? That's just dumb.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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