"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A little observation

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I have noticed ever since I started focusing on my life and my happiness, alot of people are starting to stray from me. I used to be a giver type to my friends and I recently stopped because I felt it wasn't been reciprocated. Long story short , we don't talk as much and I can see the tension there now.
This is from both men and women , even co workers.

Did anyone go through a similar phase in their growth?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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YES.

In general people attract two types of people to them:

1. Like minded people
2. People who want something

When you're a "giver" you usually attract #2. When you're more independent and indifferent you usually attract #1. Most of my current friends are pretty like-minded. The rest faded away naturally.. and I don't miss them because I have little in common with them to begin with.
 
SgtSplacker

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Yes man, came a point in my life too where I just stopped putting in effort that wasn't reciprocated. I have fewer more meaningful friendships now and I like it better.
 
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