"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A little lesson, and a little question.

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I've got a question...how long is it before you aren't a newbie on here anymore?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Ded_Skin_Mask13
I've got a question...how long is it before you aren't a newbie on here anymore?
No time limit. You just need a lot of good posts.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by AC/DC
Sorry Matrix, I'm gonna have to renege that one.

Main Entry: ****y
Pronunciation: 'kä-kE
Function: adjective
Inflected Form(s): ****·i·er; -est
Date: 1768
1 : boldly or brashly self-confident
2 : JAUNTY
- ****·i·ly /'kä-k&-lE/ adverb
- ****·i·ness /'kä-kE-n&s/ noun

That's exactly what I was.

The C in "C+F" is now officially "confident", or "charming".

I will not beg to differ. I have a problem with the base definition of ****y. You can't dispute that. It's not "****y" that works, but an aspect of it that makes it up. I think it's confidence.

I'ts not what works or not, I know it works. I purposely made a fool of myself, acting out the actual defininition of ****y. Better to be: relaxed, charming, and confident.
Jesus H. Christ. Let's try this again since you missed it the first time Sebastian. I want you to look at that definition again. Boldly or brashly self-confident and as we all know sports fans self-confidence does not have an on or off switch... which would there by mean that you would have to be ****y all of the time, not when it is convient to you or when you simply want to experiment. Therefore... as I said before being ****y is a mindset not a technique and although you tried to debuck what I said Sebastian... you only proved me to be correct.

It's better to be... that's hilarious. So now it's better to be something than something else... when before the whole attitude was crap and didn't work. Jesus H. Sebastian... make up your mind.

*Shakes head*

There is no spoon...
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
Sorry Matrix, I'm gonna have to renege that one.

Main Entry: ****y
Pronunciation: 'kä-kE
Function: adjective
Inflected Form(s): ****·i·er; -est
Date: 1768
1 : boldly or brashly self-confident
2 : JAUNTY
- ****·i·ly /'kä-k&-lE/ adverb
- ****·i·ness /'kä-kE-n&s/ noun

That's exactly what I was.

The C in "C+F" is now officially "confident", or "charming".

I will not beg to differ. I have a problem with the base definition of ****y. You can't dispute that. It's not "****y" that works, but an aspect of it that makes it up. I think it's confidence.

I'ts not what works or not, I know it works. I purposely made a fool of myself, acting out the actual defininition of ****y. Better to be: relaxed, charming, and confident.
You have soo much pride, you just cant accept that you truly dont understand. The matrix pretty much told you everthing, yet you refuse to listen...makes me wonder why. Will you ever admit that you dont understand being ****y? Its ridiculous how much pride you have in yourself. Please dont pull another, "this was just a test, i was just making sure that you all knew the difference."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anthony - care to elaborate?

Matrix - I didn't know Jesus' middle name started with an H. But really, I know it's a mindset, you've worked with me before, I don't miss obvious points. I know what you are trying to say.

And I'm gonna say it again:

It's not ****y, it's an aspect of it.

Oakraiderz2: So I'm proud. So what? I've made it this far. Not gonna stop till I hit the top. Hell, I won't even stop there.

I really believe I can revolutionize this concept. I have many people who think I'm right. I'm not gonna stop till you knuckleheads get it right.

Remember: I'm trying to help you.
 

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Your not a ****y guy, you've said this, and from you failed attempts at being ****y, we know that. Like Matrix said, ****y is a mindset and you don't have that mindset.

You came off to her as FAKE not ****y, which is the problem many have sometimes. Bragging about your penis size is a classic example, girls hate that **** because they've been hearing the same damn jokes since 7th grade and how every 13 year old has a 16 in. ****. This is just an example, there are probably other that you said that led to the 'LJBF'.

Speaking of 'LJBF'...you were not LJBFed, you were NEXTED to a degree, because she notice you were being fake. When you came up to her and apoligized for being fake and said that you would be yourself...she respected your honesty and decided to give you another chance. I agree with you on this, you were NOT being AFC, but a man.

However, your failure to use c&f does not mean it is bad. I am here testifying that it WORKS, as do hundreds of others from this very forum.

Everybody is different, not everybody can pull certain things off, so they have to resort to other measures. That is what your doing, your using other methods of achieving the goal of getting a woman.

Please do not sit here and preach that C&F doesn't work, because it works for many. Maybe not for YOU, but for many others.

Good luck with your new approach.
 
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