"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A little help with my NC situation + Some advice.

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Ended the relationship 3 year , she begged for a while to talk and by talking to my parents. I decided to talk to her and she told me she been on 3 dates and likes how the guy makes him feel. I was puzzled because why would you like him and go on dates but ask my parents to talk to me because you wanted to be together :/ . I can understand because the last 4-5 months of our relationship was rocky.

I simply said okay and never spoke to her since then went NC.
She told my grandma she is going to marry this new guy. This Christmas I felt so alone and most cracked but I held my head up and battled. I have been reading books and working on my self & I deleted her on all platforms because I didn't want to see pics of this new guy. But from what I know this guy is the complete opposite of me. ( Saw a pic of both of them on Whatsapp)

Her friends like my pictures on social media but don't say anything to me & i don't reach out to them.
The situation is messed up because my family genuinely liked her and even now I know my mom still talks to her.

What should I do ...hold NC or approach to talk about things for the last time. Our last conversation was when she told me she went on dates with him and liked positive the attention he gave her & and how she is confused now. I took that as a sign and stepped back since.

Need some advice guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Un-confuse her. Drop her because that is what she has done to you.

Tell your mum and the rest of your family to withdraw because your ex has it easy. She is using them while she moves on but your left with the pain and the reminders that come back to you through them.

Cut her off completely. She is boning another guy and what? She is going to come back to you afterwards? Every time she wants to bone another guy she will get confused and put you on hold while she rides.

Dont contact her. Move on. Find better.
 
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Mr_Maximus said:
Un-confuse her. Drop her because that is what she has done to you.

Tell your mum and the rest of your family to withdraw because your ex has it easy. She is using them while she moves on but your left with the pain and the reminders that come back to you through them.

Cut her off completely. She is boning another guy and what? She is going to come back to you afterwards? Every time she wants to bone another guy she will get confused and put you on hold while she rides.

Dont contact her. Move on. Find better.
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Thanks man , everything is starting to make sense day by day
 
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