"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A little help with my NC situation + Some advice.

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Yorkex

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Ended the relationship 3 year , she begged for a while to talk and by talking to my parents. I decided to talk to her and she told me she been on 3 dates and likes how the guy makes him feel. I was puzzled because why would you like him and go on dates but ask my parents to talk to me because you wanted to be together :/ . I can understand because the last 4-5 months of our relationship was rocky.

I simply said okay and never spoke to her since then went NC.
She told my grandma she is going to marry this new guy. This Christmas I felt so alone and most cracked but I held my head up and battled. I have been reading books and working on my self & I deleted her on all platforms because I didn't want to see pics of this new guy. But from what I know this guy is the complete opposite of me. ( Saw a pic of both of them on Whatsapp)

Her friends like my pictures on social media but don't say anything to me & i don't reach out to them.
The situation is messed up because my family genuinely liked her and even now I know my mom still talks to her.

What should I do ...hold NC or approach to talk about things for the last time. Our last conversation was when she told me she went on dates with him and liked positive the attention he gave her & and how she is confused now. I took that as a sign and stepped back since.

Need some advice guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Un-confuse her. Drop her because that is what she has done to you.

Tell your mum and the rest of your family to withdraw because your ex has it easy. She is using them while she moves on but your left with the pain and the reminders that come back to you through them.

Cut her off completely. She is boning another guy and what? She is going to come back to you afterwards? Every time she wants to bone another guy she will get confused and put you on hold while she rides.

Dont contact her. Move on. Find better.
 
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Mr_Maximus said:
Un-confuse her. Drop her because that is what she has done to you.

Tell your mum and the rest of your family to withdraw because your ex has it easy. She is using them while she moves on but your left with the pain and the reminders that come back to you through them.

Cut her off completely. She is boning another guy and what? She is going to come back to you afterwards? Every time she wants to bone another guy she will get confused and put you on hold while she rides.

Dont contact her. Move on. Find better.
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Thanks man , everything is starting to make sense day by day
 
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