"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A little experiment

Noeltech8907

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Well i was ready to next this girl because of her busy schedule and inability to stick with plans, but then i decided to do a little experiment. I called her up and said "Im going to switch it up...I have this comming sunday off, so i want you to come up with something for us to do and give me a call before then." Now im not sure if this was a good idea, but i could see it working and since i was going to next her i really have nothing to lose. I will report back with the results, but until then give me some feedback on my little experiment.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yup, keep trying, but keep her on the back-burner psychologically while you pursue other girls. NEXT her - but keep this experiment on. It doesn't matter what experiment you are doing - if you dont sarge you have oneitis and you have a problem whehter it works or doesn't work. You should try to do 6 approaches with HB's each day from tommorow to Sunday, and try to get a few contact-closes to get your mind off this girl. Then I'll tell you, it doesn't matter how your experiment goes, as long as you dont have onitis, you will learn something from her.
 

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Just to clairify to you luke, I in no way shape or form form have oneitis for this girl. And trust me i will be doing plenty of sarging. And even if this experiment does end well i will most likely next her anyway, i just figured i would delay the NEXTING for this little experiment.
 

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just wondering why luke skywalker is giving advice. He's the 40 year old virgin right? No offense man, but how can you give someone advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tryin 2 play said:
just wondering why luke skywalker is giving advice. He's the 40 year old virgin right? No offense man, but how can you give someone advice?
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