"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

A little experiment

Noeltech8907

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2005
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
Well i was ready to next this girl because of her busy schedule and inability to stick with plans, but then i decided to do a little experiment. I called her up and said "Im going to switch it up...I have this comming sunday off, so i want you to come up with something for us to do and give me a call before then." Now im not sure if this was a good idea, but i could see it working and since i was going to next her i really have nothing to lose. I will report back with the results, but until then give me some feedback on my little experiment.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Joined
May 23, 2006
Messages
2,434
Reaction score
11
Yup, keep trying, but keep her on the back-burner psychologically while you pursue other girls. NEXT her - but keep this experiment on. It doesn't matter what experiment you are doing - if you dont sarge you have oneitis and you have a problem whehter it works or doesn't work. You should try to do 6 approaches with HB's each day from tommorow to Sunday, and try to get a few contact-closes to get your mind off this girl. Then I'll tell you, it doesn't matter how your experiment goes, as long as you dont have onitis, you will learn something from her.
 

Noeltech8907

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2005
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
Just to clairify to you luke, I in no way shape or form form have oneitis for this girl. And trust me i will be doing plenty of sarging. And even if this experiment does end well i will most likely next her anyway, i just figured i would delay the NEXTING for this little experiment.
 

tryin 2 play

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
244
Reaction score
3
just wondering why luke skywalker is giving advice. He's the 40 year old virgin right? No offense man, but how can you give someone advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

SexinEar

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2006
Messages
170
Reaction score
0
tryin 2 play said:
just wondering why luke skywalker is giving advice. He's the 40 year old virgin right? No offense man, but how can you give someone advice?
yey keyboard jockeys
 
Top