"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A little example of my Aggressive Text Game

SpazzAttackk

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I notice a lot of newbies here (I still consider myself one) dont know how to give aggressive text game.

Heres a little example of how I do it. Everyone has their own way, each way works for different women. Heres a snippet of a facebook convo I just had about 5 minutes ago with a new plate. The red lipped bvtch part was part of an inside lipstick joke.


ME
Yo red lipped bvtch, can you clean my house?

13:40
HER
hmmm
What will you give me?

ME
Breakfast in the morning.

13:42
HER
Deal?
And, hello to you too.
With light toasted bread, chocolate milk, a big mac and cheese cake.
*well, you can figure out the order.

13:55
ME
Fat ass
When are you cleaning services available?

14:10
HER
Any day you want em', I got em'
Today

---------4 hour gap to keep her on her toes--------------

18:28
ME
Lets see, I need my house cleaned up on Thursday. So if you could come over that would be great.

18:28
HER
I was JUST stalking your profile, you look like a Mafia King!

18:34
ME
Just call me Juan, the mafia Don. So, Thursday?



After that it was an agreement and nothing special was said after. Now I got a broad to 'clean my house'
 

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TheCWord

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Solid. I think the fat ass comment was risky (and actually not all that necessary) but, hey, it all worked.

What SS members who struggle with text game should take note of is how brief the convo is. And the four hour gap in the middle.
 

SpazzAttackk

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May_Day said:
Doesn't mean anything if you dont get laid.
If you go in with that mindset you wont get laid. :nono:

Edit: If you must know the end of the conversation, she said shed clean the house only if she got a Mc****.

I swear though if she pvssy foots when shes over she can gtfo. Cant stand girls who are all talk
 

TheException

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take note of is how brief the convo is. And the four hour gap in the middle.

This^

If your not talking to her in person then dont "chat her up". If she initiates a text by all means indulge her a bit, but dont be spending hours texting. And golden rule: DONT INITIATE TEXTING "JUST TO TALK".
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JoeMarron

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TheException said:
take note of is how brief the convo is. And the four hour gap in the middle.

This^

If your not talking to her in person then dont "chat her up". If she initiates a text by all means indulge her a bit, but dont be spending hours texting. And golden rule: DONT INITIATE TEXTING "JUST TO TALK".
I rarely initiate texting period. If the dynamic between you and her is set up right then she'll be the one hitting you up.
 

DragonBlood

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SpazzAttackk said:
Just call me Juan, the mafia Don.
:D


Even if this goes over her head I like it hahaha


text game is good, aggressive is risky but you now have the frame.
 

visions

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your "aggressive" text game only works for young females (as in less than 20 years of age), more mentally/emotionally deficient females, and females from lower-income neighborhoods. this isn't necessarily a bad thing.

that would not work on a "college-educated" female working for the government in d.c, for example...

but "aggressive" text game has its place, as you just demonstrated
 

SpazzAttackk

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visions said:
your "aggressive" text game only works for young females (as in less than 20 years of age), more mentally/emotionally deficient females, and females from lower-income neighborhoods. this isn't necessarily a bad thing.

that would not work on a "college-educated" female working for the government in d.c, for example...

but "aggressive" text game has its place, as you just demonstrated
I do understand what youre saying. But you should probably stop texting prudes. The girl is actually pretty much well off on her own, mid 20s, university. Definitely not low income.

This seems like a sugar coated subtle low blow
 

pdx1138

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I like it.

Brief..and VERY Alpha.

This could work on a large spectrum of women.

Some women respond badly to sarcasm, but most get off on it.

Nothing "works" for everyone out there. It's worth the risk, I say.

Coincidentally, I was just texting a new prospect that she should fly
over to my house on her broom stick and sweep my driveway.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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