"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

A little example of my Aggressive Text Game

SpazzAttackk

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2012
Messages
170
Reaction score
4
I notice a lot of newbies here (I still consider myself one) dont know how to give aggressive text game.

Heres a little example of how I do it. Everyone has their own way, each way works for different women. Heres a snippet of a facebook convo I just had about 5 minutes ago with a new plate. The red lipped bvtch part was part of an inside lipstick joke.


ME
Yo red lipped bvtch, can you clean my house?

13:40
HER
hmmm
What will you give me?

ME
Breakfast in the morning.

13:42
HER
Deal?
And, hello to you too.
With light toasted bread, chocolate milk, a big mac and cheese cake.
*well, you can figure out the order.

13:55
ME
Fat ass
When are you cleaning services available?

14:10
HER
Any day you want em', I got em'
Today

---------4 hour gap to keep her on her toes--------------

18:28
ME
Lets see, I need my house cleaned up on Thursday. So if you could come over that would be great.

18:28
HER
I was JUST stalking your profile, you look like a Mafia King!

18:34
ME
Just call me Juan, the mafia Don. So, Thursday?



After that it was an agreement and nothing special was said after. Now I got a broad to 'clean my house'
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

TheCWord

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2013
Messages
873
Reaction score
63
Solid. I think the fat ass comment was risky (and actually not all that necessary) but, hey, it all worked.

What SS members who struggle with text game should take note of is how brief the convo is. And the four hour gap in the middle.
 

SpazzAttackk

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2012
Messages
170
Reaction score
4
May_Day said:
Doesn't mean anything if you dont get laid.
If you go in with that mindset you wont get laid. :nono:

Edit: If you must know the end of the conversation, she said shed clean the house only if she got a Mc****.

I swear though if she pvssy foots when shes over she can gtfo. Cant stand girls who are all talk
 

TheException

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
111
take note of is how brief the convo is. And the four hour gap in the middle.

This^

If your not talking to her in person then dont "chat her up". If she initiates a text by all means indulge her a bit, but dont be spending hours texting. And golden rule: DONT INITIATE TEXTING "JUST TO TALK".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

JoeMarron

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2012
Messages
1,301
Reaction score
64
Age
35
TheException said:
take note of is how brief the convo is. And the four hour gap in the middle.

This^

If your not talking to her in person then dont "chat her up". If she initiates a text by all means indulge her a bit, but dont be spending hours texting. And golden rule: DONT INITIATE TEXTING "JUST TO TALK".
I rarely initiate texting period. If the dynamic between you and her is set up right then she'll be the one hitting you up.
 

DragonBlood

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2012
Messages
516
Reaction score
30
Age
38
SpazzAttackk said:
Just call me Juan, the mafia Don.
:D


Even if this goes over her head I like it hahaha


text game is good, aggressive is risky but you now have the frame.
 

visions

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 3, 2013
Messages
232
Reaction score
23
Age
39
your "aggressive" text game only works for young females (as in less than 20 years of age), more mentally/emotionally deficient females, and females from lower-income neighborhoods. this isn't necessarily a bad thing.

that would not work on a "college-educated" female working for the government in d.c, for example...

but "aggressive" text game has its place, as you just demonstrated
 

SpazzAttackk

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2012
Messages
170
Reaction score
4
visions said:
your "aggressive" text game only works for young females (as in less than 20 years of age), more mentally/emotionally deficient females, and females from lower-income neighborhoods. this isn't necessarily a bad thing.

that would not work on a "college-educated" female working for the government in d.c, for example...

but "aggressive" text game has its place, as you just demonstrated
I do understand what youre saying. But you should probably stop texting prudes. The girl is actually pretty much well off on her own, mid 20s, university. Definitely not low income.

This seems like a sugar coated subtle low blow
 

pdx1138

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2010
Messages
1,298
Reaction score
52
I like it.

Brief..and VERY Alpha.

This could work on a large spectrum of women.

Some women respond badly to sarcasm, but most get off on it.

Nothing "works" for everyone out there. It's worth the risk, I say.

Coincidentally, I was just texting a new prospect that she should fly
over to my house on her broom stick and sweep my driveway.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top