"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A little dilema with a girl..

Kidd

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Hello, I dont usually come to places like this to ask for advice. But, something has been bothering me lately, I am for the first time clueless and need help.

My friend is a girl, let's call her X, has had her 16th bday party yesterday. I had a crush on her a while ago, but had a gf at the time and picked my gf over X, and Im over her now.

Now the party was really fun, about 15 of her good friends, some of which I knew pretty well. She also has a sister whos a year younger then me (shes 14 im 15), lets call her Y. Me and Y have been flirting hardcore the whole evening, but I didnt ask for the # because her and her sis live in the same house, and I know their home#. Made ALOT of physical contact with Y, and she was just flooding me with interest.

I dont consider X a "girlfriend" type of girl, shes just a great friend to be around, and people often think we were best friends or brother and sis. Now at the end, she has just flipped out and started giving me crazy interest signs, lots of physical contact such as hugs, taking pics with her, complements about my looks, ect. I was seeing her do this and going like wtf is she doing... She also has a bf who was in another state at the moment, and for some reason she has never mentioned this to me.

I am f**** confused by all this. Did X see me as bf material or some crap at the last moment or what? If so, how should I act? Also would it be good to consider taking out Y for a date?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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X is jealous because she realized your not just a friend to other people, your a sex wnated by Y. Keep it up with Y, flirt a little with X but DO NOT GIVE HER TOO MUCH. Always keep her wanting more. Eventually, mabey in a couple weeks when she's almost addicted to you if you do it right, then pull something. Don't give Y anything, just keep her on her toes. You might get X pissed instead of sexually aroused if you do anything with her sis.
 

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See? The thing is, I have no intention of hooking up with X because as I said she has a bf, who from what I heard is pretty good to her, and because I dont see her as a girlfriend, rather as a "sister", heh. Im just confused on how to deal with this, because Ive never been in anything quite like this.
 

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She is jeleous (sp), like when you were a kid, and you wanted a toy that everyone else had, but when you got it, it was ****.
Decide which girl you like better and concentrate on them
 

Kidd

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True... I really dont know about dating X's sis though... really wouldnt wanna f*** up the friendship.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you don't want to date X, go for Y. Who cares about the friendship if you want her for more...
 

Kidd

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Very interesting... il probably just have to stop following what my c0ck wants on this one and go with what I believe works best...
 
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