"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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slightoverbite

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hi! i'm slightoverbite.

I'm a little nervous bc this is my first posting. i've seen some people be nasty on the site and frankly i'm kind of worried about the responses.

but to my point, i'm 16, and i have not to this date been like all over a girl. I mean, sometimes i see a hott chick and say"hey, that chick is hott", but i dunno.

basically, i'm just asking if anyone else out there is going through with the same thing.:confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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playa99

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lol some friendly advice, read the HS and DJ bible which are found at the top at the link whichs HS bible lol, it is the biggest step you will ever make in meeting girls
 

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slightoverbite said:
I'm a little nervous bc this is my first posting. i've seen some people be nasty on the site and frankly i'm kind of worried about the responses.
Never be worried about what someone on the internet thinks or says about you. Then try and apply the same thinking to real life.
 

slightoverbite

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thanks guys! i reallt appreciate it!:yes:

im glad to have some support. i'll try out what BigBanceProblem told me. Problem there is I always get a hangover when I drink, so I kind of stopped. But we'll see what happens.

also, i'm still wondering if any of you guys out there feel weird in terms of not wanting to be with a hot chick all the time. you know? well, i dont know if you know. that's why im asking.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Just took out the trash...

Anyway, playa hit the nail on the head. Read the DJ Bible, the HS Bible, and the links in the HS Bible thread.

If you have any specific questions that weren't answered, you can either post a thread or PM a moderator. We are always around.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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slightoverbite said:
also, i'm still wondering if any of you guys out there feel weird in terms of not wanting to be with a hot chick all the time. you know? well, i dont know if you know. that's why im asking.
no you are just scared of what can become of it... or you don't want to put yourself into a stressful situation.

for some people, hanging out with people that are "too good" makes them try to be someone they aren't... or try too hard. trying to constantly be someone you're not time after time after time puts you under stress.

people like to avoid stressful situations.
 
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